Let me first preface my following statements and question by saying that I consider myself to be a very good lover...i can completely ravish a woman and fuck like a champ. And, Ive got the tool to do it. However, I have a new relationship with a woman in which we are compatible in every way, and we finally became intimate 48hrs ago in a 24 hour fuckfest (ie 6 times throughout the time period of various pleasing). Outside sex, we are an equal partner couple...she loves that we are 50/50 on everything. However, during the last leg of our sex marathon she began to reveal to me what she likes to do, and have done, including that she prefers a Dom/sub dynamic. I AM TOTALLY NEW to this, like virgin new...I know nothing. I think that she tried to ease me into it by coaxing me into making her give me a rough blowjob with dick slapping while on her knees on my tiled floor. She also let me know that she loves it when I cum fed her. It also seemed that in our last session it felt like she wanted me to control her gratification, and when she cums. She becomes overly willing to "please me". I feel like I bungled the last session. So Subs, how does this Dom thing work? What are your expectations? Is there a point of crossing the line? I should probably talk to her about what she expects and wants, but I'd like to go into that conversation with some understanding...so please advise. And Googling the subject brings up pages upon pages of incoherent bullshit. Thanks in advance for your help.