I'd appreciate some input on this situation. I completely understand how sumission and dominance work in a sexual sense, that's not my question. My question deals with the technicality of the acts. For example, consider this act and tell me your thoughts, please. Situation: Sam (male or female) is incredibly horny. After a night of various activities (nonsexual), they decide to walk over to John (the man with the cock). As they approach, they give off a calm and aroused look. Sam kneels before John, and unzips his jeans, stroking and rubbing his bulge through the fabric, eventually sliding the pants/boxers to John's ankles and starting to tease and tantilize John's cock with Sam's mouth. There are variants of speed, pressure, and tightness as Sam's mouth and throat explore John's erected cock. John keeps his hands at his side. Then, Sam grabs some lube and a condom, and fingers his/her asshole with the lube, then begins to ride johns cock, hard fast and deep. Each grind, each motion, each flex of the cock sends Sam over the edge of orgasmic desire. Sam cums and John cums. Now, the question is, was Sam in the submissive role, or the dominant one? Thoughts?