Women forgive liars, they can't forgive a bore.
Tell them what they want to hear, and they'll give you what you want in bed.
Pretty much. Introverted, socially awkward guys don't get pussy, despite how genuine, honest, respectful, blah blah blah they may be. The lying asshole is the one that gets all the pussy because he knows how to push all the right buttons to get the female attracted to him and emotionally charged up for sex, regardless of how he truly, honestly feels about her (if anything at all).
Understanding women is impossible. Even when they know what they want, it's not what they want because they change their minds constantly.
Women will complain endlessly about guys being insensitive pricks or shallow, lying assholes, but these women are generally the ones that go after all the presents with the prettiest wrapping paper or the biggest "bow". Sure, the box looked nice, but the only thing inside was second hand Tupperware.
They say they want guys that are compassionate and understanding, but also be charming and have a great body and lots of money/successful job. A critical flaw with these desires is thinking the last three are good qualities. Charm takes practice. That means Prince Charming has probably talked a whole lot of girls right outta their panties before he met you. People with successful careers are very aggressive people; they see what they want and make it theirs. Again, probably a skill set that's served them well in getting tail. Guys with great bodies know they have great bodies and can use their six pack to get any number of girls.
ProTip: If a guy is in a club, he's not a nice guy. He's looking for a young, dumb girl to take home and fuck mercilessly. In fact, any guy that hits on you is probably not the Mr Right you're dreaming of.
The sweet, funny, polite, caring guy you're pining over is probably the last person you'd consider having a relationship with. He's the quiet guy in the corner. He's the guy that diverts his eyes whenever you look in his direction. He's the guy working the shitty dead end job because, while it's not glorious, it pays the bills.
Most women that complain about not finding good men aren't even looking. They're cherry picking the men that seek out their attention. The gentleman you desire so badly just assumes you wouldn't be interested in him because he's probably seen you hanging over some ABF model and figures he can't measure up. And most tragically, Mr. Perfect is generally your best male friend that you dump all your emotional baggage on and love him dearly for his emotional support-- however, you have absolutely no sexual interest in him because if he was the strong willed, independent swinging-dick heman you wanted, he wouldn't put up with being your emotional enema.
This is pretty much what I would say, but since you seem to be more interesting than I am, maybe it'll carry more weight now that
you've said it :tongue:.
Well, perhaps. But I think you're missing the point that women really WANT to be lied to by high-quality males.
When you approach a girl, she knows you want to screw her. But coming right out and saying it (being honest) is disrespectful. It's respectful to lie, to make it appear that you're looking for something else from her. And the more creatively and effectively you lie, the more she'll respect and love you.
This is why I said it was a revelation. Women don't play by the same rules as men. Men value being upfront. Women don't. They pretend they do, but that's a lie as well.
You must understand this at a gut level to be successful with women. It's very alien to how men are raised to deal with other things in life.
All of these previous quotes lead right into the world of the pick-up artist and the seduction community. Guys that for the most part don't have the natural skills to get the girls and sex that they want, but that are smart enough to study the guys that
do have the natural ability to get all the girls and sex they want. They are smart enough to discover and study what works and then apply it. They learn to say the right words, do the right things, look the right way, and generally push the right buttons to get almost any girl emotionally charged up and wanting sex. Being the man that the particular girl they're talking to wants them to be. This may include lying, although many claim to work on the premise that they're being absolutely truthful, being honest, and just being "Mr. Right Now" to the girl.
They've deliberately discovered and learned this dichotomy; that women consciously claim to want one thing, but subconsciously respond to completely the other thing. They say they want the nice guy who will pay for everything, buy them flowers, listen to their problems for hours, be a gentleman, yadda yadda yadda. Yet you see them in the club or the bar and not long after meeting the guy who is a bit of a cocky asshole, who is fun and funny, who doesn't
appear to give a shit about them and doesn't want to hear them talk about boring shit, they are on their knees in the sleazy bathroom sucking his dick for all she's worth like it's the fountain of youth or the holy grail. Or bent over the hood of the car in the parking lot. Despite claiming to want the former, they won't give him the time of day. Despite claiming to hate the former, they keep going back and giving it up.
Actions speak louder than words. So while the women may constantly
say one thing about the guy, their behaviors show otherwise.
Because he was the guy who knew how to push the "give it up" buttons.
The best ones sometimes are liars, but sometimes aren't. Some of the best ones are the ones that come in completely under the radar and no one even realizes what's happening or where's it's leading until it's too late and actually happening.
Yes, you can have many **ONE NIGHT STANDS** by lying to women.
But you can't keep lying if you want a serious relationship.
True. But then, the guys that do this aren't really looking for serious relationships. They want pussy. End of story.
