I'm going to address this, too, since I tend to think like those guys...
You've got to understand that a controlling bitch and an independent woman are two completely different things.
A controlling bitch is NOT independent, but needy. She needs to have somebody conform to her own little universe.
An independent woman does not need to make anybody fit into her own idea of the world.
So, no, a truly independent woman is not a controlling bitch.
EagleCowboy, Monster, HugoB: You guys say that and I'm sure in your own way you really mean it. The sad, ugly truth is men like hanging out with independent women and you luv it when we are your fuck buddy or FWB. But you never marry the truly independent woman do you?. On the rare occassion that you do marry an independent woman within 5-10 years you start complaining about what a controlling bitch she is. Or you start cheating with someone younger and dumber and far less independent than the woman you married.
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You've got to understand that a controlling bitch and an independent woman are two completely different things.
A controlling bitch is NOT independent, but needy. She needs to have somebody conform to her own little universe.
An independent woman does not need to make anybody fit into her own idea of the world.
So, no, a truly independent woman is not a controlling bitch.