Sucking a big dick issues?

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So I've recently gotten into my first relationship, and when it came to sex, he was way too big for me to suck off comfortably. I can get like, half in my mouth before I start to gag.

Does anybody have experience or tips to help with this? I obviously want us both to be comfortable during sex.
 
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You take what you can take comfortably, then take a little more. I've noticed that most seem to really get off on the gagging aspect. Even moreso, when you press on. Just keep after it, doesn't matter how much you're slobbering all over the place, I find it really hot for the both of us.
 

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Sucking dick isn't all about deepthroating. A lot of guys Just want to ram it down their throat and think that makes for good head skillz. If you can't deepthroat suck it get it nice and wet and use your tongue to play with it, lick under the head. Get creative. Turn your limitation into a positive.
However if you man like getting deepthroated, then you need to practice, just like ConorJ says take a little more at time and slobber is your friend it helps lubricate the dick to go down. You can also train your gag reflex by using a toothbrush to probe your throat deeper but again take your time with this Rome wasn't built in a day, small constant training will work wonders. A nice trick as well is when the dick is going deep swallow that way your throat will open up and you won't gag as much.
 

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It's not called head for nothing. :cool:

Few have throated me, I never expect it and never ask or push for it.

If I come in someone's mouth it's because of what their lips and tongue are doing to my head. Their hands and fingers may or may not be contributing stimulation.
 

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It's about the effort you put into it. It feels great to be deep throated, but guys with huge cocks just understand that it doesn't always happen. Don't choke yourself trying to do it because getting puked on while you're getting head is a major turnoff. Use your tongue, lips, and hands to assist you.
 
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While there are many ways to give head, I feel like there are few greater pleasures than the reactions of a super hung guy when throating him for the first time.

Here are some things you can do to help that along:

1 - Practice. Get yourself a toy that's a little thinner than him and work a few times per day on learning to throat it. Gradually work it deeper until you start to feel the gag reflex just begin, then back off before your gut tries to heave. Use the points below to help with that.

2 - Align properly. If he's got a bend in his shaft, or a head that raises or droops down, position yourself so that his contours match the bend of your throat. On your knees in front is great if he has a downward bend. If upward, then getting in "69" position (or facing that way but with your pelvis off to one side if he doesn't suck you) works better. Once you're more experienced and you're ready to let him take over, laying on your back for a proper skull fucking may work well, but hold off on that until you're much more confident, or into a dom/sub scene.

3 - Use your tongue. Your tongue is your greatest asset when giving deep head, or any head for that matter. Pushing it out as far as you can will ease the bend in your throat, then you can pretend you're "grabbing" him with the tip of your tongue and pulling him in. Sometimes if he's really big it'll take three or four of those "grab & pull" moves to get him all the way down. The "swallowing" mentioned by find83 is really hard at first but I've been able to throat some truly enormous men like that.

4 - Be prepared. Be well hydrated so you can produce plenty of saliva to lubricate him and your throat. However, it's best not to eat or drink for a few hours beforehand so that if your body heaves, you won't risk making a mess.

5 - Be confident & relaxed. This is something that you're ready for, and he's going to love it. Know that you can please him and don't tense up. Know beforehand that once your body is accustomed to him, throating will become so much easier. If you do gag (and don't make a mess), that's just a little discomfort that you can learn to push through, like the good pain you feel when exerting many other physical efforts. Some guys really love the feeling of you gagging on their meat, as long as you don't pull off and quit!

Some guys resort to chemicals to relax further (poppers, alcohol, molly, etc) but I'm not a fan of potentially diminishing the experience and putting myself at greater risk.

This is so much fun, and so worth the effort to get good at, but not all headmasters can throat all men. There are limits to our anatomies, but many suckers never get close to finding those limits.
 

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Sucking dick isn't all about deepthroating. A lot of guys Just want to ram it down their throat and think that makes for good head skillz. If you can't deepthroat suck it get it nice and wet and use your tongue to play with it, lick under the head. Get creative. Turn your limitation into a positive.
However if you man like getting deepthroated, then you need to practice, just like ConorJ says take a little more at time and slobber is your friend it helps lubricate the dick to go down. You can also train your gag reflex by using a toothbrush to probe your throat deeper but again take your time with this Rome wasn't built in a day, small constant training will work wonders. A nice trick as well is when the dick is going deep swallow that way your throat will open up and you won't gag as much.
I have to try that, I'm getting closer
 
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I've sucked A LOT of cock and I still have a gag reflex that I'm proud of. Not every guy likes being deepthroated and I've noticed that guys with huge cocks love being gagged on and told it won't fit down my throat bc it's even more of a confidence booster. Just don't puke on him lmao
 

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I agree that when you get the hang of it, deep throating is fun to do...but...its not all there is. Think of it as one more tool in your cocksucking tool bag. Variety of actions has been what hung tops have liked about the way I suck cock...when its the first time with a dude, I don’t reveal that I can swallow a lot of cock right away...lots of working his cock with my lips and tongue...good amount of spit...and then surprise him when i deep throat the whole shaft—I always get a “holy shit!” Reaction.
 

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Sucking dick isn't all about deepthroating. A lot of guys Just want to ram it down their throat and think that makes for good head skillz. If you can't deepthroat suck it get it nice and wet and use your tongue to play with it, lick under the head. Get creative. Turn your limitation into a positive.
However if you man like getting deepthroated, then you need to practice, just like ConorJ says take a little more at time and slobber is your friend it helps lubricate the dick to go down. You can also train your gag reflex by using a toothbrush to probe your throat deeper but again take your time with this Rome wasn't built in a day, small constant training will work wonders. A nice trick as well is when the dick is going deep swallow that way your throat will open up and you won't gag as much.
Sucking dick isn't all about deepthroating. A lot of guys Just want to ram it down their throat and think that makes for good head skillz. If you can't deepthroat suck it get it nice and wet and use your tongue to play with it, lick under the head. Get creative. Turn your limitation into a positive.
However if you man like getting deepthroated, then you need to practice, just like ConorJ says take a little more at time and slobber is your friend it helps lubricate the dick to go down. You can also train your gag reflex by using a toothbrush to probe your throat deeper but again take your time with this Rome wasn't built in a day, small constant training will work wonders. A nice trick as well is when the dick is going deep swallow that way your throat will open up and you won't gag as much.
Great advice!