Sucking a hung co-worker

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I also read the entire thread, and with autism in my family (and it is a spectrum), I would expect that a significant number of the MIT department of Electrical Engineering and Computer Science Department are on the autism spectrum - and a lot more intelligent than whoever is reading this (they just don't want to talk to you or anyone). And yet some readers are suggesting that these people should be denied sex.

Autistic people are not mentally incapable. Or sexually lacking. The issue is usually the other way when they want to have sex and the recipient is unintersted, and they can't pick up on that.on the cues.

I'm invoking Dan Savage's campsite rule here as mentioned above. You have to leave the campground in the same state that you found it or better. I think you have found orgasms in someone who may not have found them elsewhere, and if he is straight, and can find the right woman then the appeal of the orgasm may push him into a happy marriage, or long term happy relationship. If you find your own long term relationship before he finds his, and you haven't discussed it with him and had him understand it, then you are an arsehole (assshole to the Americans). LPSG will judge you poorly if you keep having sex with him and then exit when convenient for you but devastating for him.

Unlike all of the naysayers - I think you have found orgasms where there were going to be no orgasms. If you can find a way to keep those going, then I see no problem.
 

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Interesting read. I am saddened by the number of judgmental people that pop up on almost every other thread here, and many other places. I've worked with the mentally and intellectually impaired people (not the same thing) and the biggest hardship that they usually face is just being treated like a person. Yes, there are people who will take advantage. I'm not sure if the original poster qualifies. He was already friendly enough to help with the move (not something that I offer lightly). He just happened to try to take it to the next level. I've tried this with many friends/acquaintances with mixed results. I have known many people who were "autistic" on some level, Asperger's or otherwise. We're not talking about mental retardation here (known them, too, and guess what....they had sexual thoughts, too). Some of these people had amazing jobs that you would marvel at the level of competencies required to do them. I cannot tell you how many people I have encountered who were ..*cough*...normal, but had so many hang-ups about zillions of things (religious, economic, racial) that you'd wonder that they ever got laid). It is too easy to fold you arms across your chest and press your lips together in disapproval. Not every place is a gay-mecca. If the guy who made the advances is in a smallish town, he may have had very limited options (regarding finding someone). I can only relate to the "convincing" tactics that were taken, as I have employed them, too, when in isolated places. Again with mixed results.
 
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I'm rooting for OP. Suck his dick like a champ! So autistic men can't get there dick suck now??? Ugh I'm jealous that he's hung. Take a pic and put it up pls.
 
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