Sucking a Large Dick

[AZZAWA]

I just started seeing a guy and he has a large dick - both in girth and length. I can get my mouth around the head and then a bit down his shaft but by no means am I deep throating him. I would to satisfy him orally but I a afraid the gagging noises I make may be a turnoff. I am also worried that I may be scraping him with my teeth and I don't want to do that.

I know the best approach is for me to talk to him about this. "honey your dick is so large, give me time to get use to it so I can take more without gagging or scraping you" - perhaps he may be turned on by the gagging sounds or the scaping. That said, any advice on how to suck a large dick?

 

[knowhow2useit]

Can't say i have any advice, but trust me, the gagging sounds are NEVER a turn off, more like a turn on. As for a how to...

 

[ydkj_tx]

I find that the bigger they are, the easier they are it get down. Breathe a bit before going for the gusto. Also, try gargling with some Listerine - coat the back of your throat - it'll help some with the gagging.

 

[hellomoto11]

well how large is large

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Breathe through your nose and swallow it as though it were food while being careful not to chew or close your throat too tightly on his cock. You continue breathing when your eating, so it's possible to do so while you suck cock, the gagging probably is a turn on but it might be too much for you after a while so the technique I'm suggesting will help you not to choke and gag too much.

 

[AZZAWA]

I do have a tendency to breath through my mouth so I will try the nose thing. Listering is a good idea as well. Is gagging on a dick really a turn on? I haven't measured him yet - a little too early in the relationship to get the tape measure out. He looks like he is 8.5 and THICK.

 

[VeeP]

...while being careful not to chew

yipes... chewing is definitely a deal breaker

 

[tommiet]

Try licking up and down the shaft and doing other things like ball massage while slurping the ehad.Don't think you have to throat the cock if it too big. Believe me. I know how to suck a cock!!!

 

[Stevie_D]

Gagging is a huge turn on, definitely. If you really wanna get him going, gag on it til your eyes water, then take it out, start jacking him off, look right into his eyes, and say something like "Oh my god, you're so BIG!"

If THAT doesn't turn him on, then he must hate life.

 

[sexplease]

the throat stretches only so much. lots of spit and licking and work on the balls too might get the job done nicely

 

[arthurdent]

You continue breathing when your eating, so it's possible to do so while you suck cock

You breathe while you're chewing but when you swallow, the epiglotis closes over the windpipe to prevent food going straight into your lungs, which would make you cough. Also, if his cock is wide enough to fill your throat/windpipe, then there may be little or no room for enough air to pass through to your lungs.

Tip: Sniffing poppers usually helps suppress the gag reflex.

 

[beachbum1971]

make sure you tuck your lips over you teeth! Wet the length with your salivia, and if you tear up or gag, they love it! If you tilt your head back and let him stand above you and he lowers it down, it goes down deeper...

 

[arthurdent]

If he has the kind of cock which points upwards when standing, or it has an upward curve, then it will be easier to deep throat him if you get into the 69 position.

 

[EdWoody]

Can't say i have any advice, but trust me, the gagging sounds are NEVER a turn off, more like a turn on.

Gagging is a huge turn on, definitely.

Really? I have to disagree, although I do notice it's been straight guys saying that.

The very few times I've seen any straight porn, the woman always seemed to be gargling to a frankly ludicrous degree. Like she was on the verge of vomiting the whole time. I had to mute it cause it was so ridiculous and irritating.

I thought, "Are all women this noisy? Is this what straight guys like? Because honey, if you're having that much trouble, you should just step aside and let somebody who knows what they're doing have a go."

Seriously, is this what straight men like? Because it struck me as just silly.

I know to me, somebody who can actually handle a big dick properly is much more of a turn-on that somebody who constantly chokes their guts up the whole time.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

You breathe while you're chewing but when you swallow, the epiglotis closes over the windpipe to prevent food going straight into your lungs, which would make you cough. Also, if his cock is wide enough to fill your throat/windpipe, then there may be little or no room for enough air to pass through to your lungs.

Tip: Sniffing poppers usually helps suppress the gag reflex.

Of course I should have been clearer, in the exact moment of swallowing naturally you cannot inhale, but you can inhale after you swallow with a cock in your throat, I disagree that you can't breath in through your nose if his cock has filled your throat, unless your throat is small and your mouth not very deep. The advice about 69 is golden though, that's a really good way to deep throat if his cock curves upwards slightly

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

As a gay man, I can tell you that the sound of someone choking on my big dick is a huge turn on. So some gagging is OK. However if it keeps you from doing the job at all, try this --

1) The gag reflex is reduced when you have an empty stomach. If I plan on blowing a big cock, I always skip a meal immediately prior.

2) I read on here that Dramamine helps? Never tried it, but it seems worth a shot.

 

[likeitlg]

Flavoured lube helps me deep throat big dick, get it all nice and slippery with the lube and spit and it'll go down easier

 

[joeweekend]

There's no magic formula, no simple tricks that make it easy.

Blowing a seriously big dick is all about endurance. Are you into it enough to handle a sore jaw, and keep on sucking? Are you into it enough that you can handle the gagging and the tears? I am . . . LOL.

Here's anaccount of the biggest one I've ever had - a solid 45 minutes of throat torture. And I loved (and endured) every minute of it.

Give it a read: CockSearch2009: 5/10/09

 

[str8curious]

what about the gagging makes it hot?

 

[B_eleveinchbreeder]

the cock with the big cock getting blown, should teach you how to suck a big cock...
learning to breath from ur stomach and exhale the same way..he should hold ur nostrils until u get this down..and he should off u some poppers or something to relax your throat muscles...i have yet to reject a big dick due its size. and i have chewed on bigger cocks then my own..and I'm quite thick and wide...and well about average in length.
don't be afraid to gnaw on the fuckin cock...little teeth we expect on our blow jobs
i ask for biting, i love to see teeth makrs...reminds me that i have supplied a meal for someone.
wish i could offer more help...and practice will sure get that cock ur sucking all the way down your throat...where all the great spit is, and that OH so tight feeling...and once there, learn to just leave it in the back deep back in your throat...just feel how much power you have over him...feel how much pleasure the two of you are sharing..and from there...learn to fuck it when its all the way down..turn ur throat into a fuckin pussy...do this, he will be back for more, and more, and mored