As a straight guy, I do get my fair share of gay and bi guys that have offered to suck my cock. I have heard many reasons why gay and bi guys want to suck us straight guys so badly. What is your reasoning?
Most gay men enjoy giving head and m/m sex tends to put a stronger focus on oral sex . It's the more common form of penetrative m/m sex.
As for the offers, take them as a compliment unless they move into the realm of harassment (in which case, do not tolerate it and tell them to stop).
Do you guys just want to serve us?
No, I think the guys with the straight fetish are serving their own libidoes first and foremost.
Have a hidden agenda to conver us to gay or bi?
Be very careful with words like "agenda" when asking a sexuality based question directed to gay men. The "gay agenda" is a pretty common homophobic trope, though it has become less common in the west in the last decade or so. That isn't an accusation, just a call to raise your awareness on linguistic choice. The sexual act doesn't change the person's sexuality. That part is impossible. If someone who outwardly identifies as straight partakes in a bj from a man, it's just that. I think the two consenting adults having fun part is key, the personal identity label part is a bit meaningless.
Are you a cock whore and just need to fill that craving of sucking cock? Do you just need the hot cum in your mouth to swallow?
These are just some that I have heard.
No and no for me. I love cocks and men but that makes it sound like any random dick will do, definitely not the case. I also prefer regular partners to one nighters.
I am just wondering what your reasoning to offer your mouth to a straight guy and in some occasions, let him blow his load in your mouth to swallow?
I think there are four main motivations why a gay man would make that offer, two are healthy and normal, two are definitely not.
The first is simply liking a challenge. I don't think this is problematic, it acts as an ego stroke.
The second is simply getting an attractive man into bed and giving him a good time. If he tends to be more into women generally, well who cares. This is natural too. Sexuality is a very broad spectrum and plenty of people fall into greyer areas that are less easy to define. Giving an attractive person a fresh, new sexual experience is common across the sexuality spectrum. I can understand this, and a hang up free hottie without much experience with men, if the attraction is there and we get on well, is welcome.
Internalised homophobia and dodgy conceptualisations of masculinity. When you get the guys who claim to be exclusively or mostly attracted to straight identifying men, this usually comes from a faulty premise of straight = more masculine (bollocks) and not being comfortable with being gay. This is also tied into the gender stereotyping of men being constantly horny and incapable of witholding consent. These are extremely unhealthy and wildly inaccurate.
An inability to separate fantasy from reality, thinking the idea sounds appealing without thinking about potential pitfalls to a healthy mutually enjoyable sexual experience (like lack of experience and bizarre sexuality based hang ups such as no kissing, main reasons I don't share in this fetish). Again not healthy.
