Sugar Baby/daddy Experience

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I have read a couple of post on threads accusing guys of having sugar daddies does anyone have actual experience of this, Curious to hear the good and the bad ;)
 
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Okay..I'll share...my experience was bittersweet because I did not have to put out sexually at all...well...let me explain...it was during the holiday season and I was working for this well known company but they were having a lot of financial windfalls and were telling the employees that they were going to either cut you altogether or get laid off.

I was still working the weekend gig at club and the lead bartender Kevin had asked me to work with him during the holiday season and he promised it would be financially beneficial for me if I did. I never worked with Kevin before so for me to do so..not only did it turned out be so much fun ..but very beneficial in so many ways...lol..oh..I forgot to mention..Kevin is not only hot..but so sexy...nuff said..lol...lol...Usually..I worked the club on weekends..but Kevin put in a lot of hours during the week and wanted me to work those nights and weekends too..no problem..I did not mind at all.

So..this one particular night...Kevin grabbed my hand and directed me to this very distinguished older guy sitting at the end of the bar. He introduced me to him and told me that he was a regular and to treat him well...because he was also a great tipper. Within minutes...this guy had started this general conversation with me throughout me working the station I was assigned to. This guy had mentioned to me that there was this holiday classical event that was taking place in the next week and the proceeds from this event usually benefit the homeless and domestic violence victims within the city but he was saying that he had no one to go with and was going to cancel his RSVP.

Jokingly...I said "no problem..I'll go with you" ...I laughed and walked away...when I went back towards him after tending to a customer..he looked at me and said "You would really go with me?"..I responded.."Actually..I was just joking..but in all seriousness...I know we just met and don't know each other like that..but if you really want to go and if Kevin can vouch for you..then I will be happy to go with you"

So because it was high formal..I had to wear a tux and this guy had his chauffeured limo pick me up at the club..(I did not want him to know where I lived..lol) ..anyway...we had a great time and I got to learn a lot about him as well. He was quite the gentleman. As the night was coming to an end..I thanked him for such a wonderful evening and he asked me would I attend a Christmas ballet performance with him the following week...I said okay...no problem...another great evening as well...however...as the chauffeur was driving me back to the club...the guy pulled out this really pretty gold envelope and handed it to me saying "Merry Christmas". I felt awkward about this and let him know that he did not have to get me anything that having accompanying him has been enough because he has shown me a really nice time..he told me I insist that you take the envelope and have a wonderful holiday on me...however..he demanded that I do not open the envelope until I got home.

So..when I got home..I opened it and there was a cashier's check for the amount of $5000.00 in it. I was so overwhelmed that I could not sleep. I did call the guy and told him that I could not accept his gift...he insisted and told me that he was very wealthy and he really appreciate me accompanying him to those events and that is his gift to me for doing so. We went back and forth for about five minutes and that is when he scolded me by saying..."This is my money...you don't tell me what to do with it...I do with it as I please...so make me happy by accepting this gift and have a good holiday"

A couple of nights later..I told Kevin about it and he told me that this guy has done this kind of thing for him as well and that is why he wanted me to meet him...and all I have to do is go accompany him to his events...no sexual contact whatsoever with this one...just be arm candy...Not to go into further details..but I would say this...I became his escort but for public appearances only...this went on for well into the next year...I recoup some great financial benefits being in the company of this guy..so much so...that I will share this...I wound up paying off my mom's mortgage on her house in full when she was alive to enjoy it.

I have never been comfortable with accepting outlandish gifts from anyone...I am the type of guy that loves to give and spend on you if I like you...but does not receive gifts well from others. So...this became a very difficult situation for me to be in. My co-workers who knew about this Kevin and Bill kept trying to talk me into riding it until the wheels fall off..but after awhile...I could not do it anymore and because I had such issues with this arrangement...it caused problems between me and the old guy. He said I was too strong willed and very independent for his liking and found it to be a turn off that I could not just be okay with the situation because he really liked me as a person and liked talking with me. However, he too was very strong willed and stubborn and he became very angry at me..as he said.."He likes passive and submissive men that do what he says". With that being said..he felt that if things did not go the way he wanted especially if he was the financial benefactor..then he wanted to sever all ties with me...and that was okay with me

Not too long after this...I got a new daytime position with the Director of a Fortune 500 company that I've mentioned in a previous post and that opened a whole new chapter of my life for the better so to speak where I also quit the bartending job as well.. That is my one and only sugardaddy/sugarbaby experience...
 

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I've had 4 in my life:

It depends on exactly what you want out of it. If you just want to be adored and have an allowance and your bills paid (you'd better be a really hot twink or a really hot gym bro), you can find an arrangement like that (daddies like that usually have ED or some other disability that makes sex difficult or impossible), but that's NOT easy to find.

In my case, I wanted good sex as bad as I wanted the financial arrangements and I was already in a social atmosphere where I could meet older openly or closeted gay men, so my first arrangement was offered to me without me asking or even thinking about it. That one lasted for about a year and after that fizzled out, I almost immediately got in one with his best friend, which was the easiest one bc he was married and had a family, so sometimes it'd be a week or more between us seeing each other, but he still gave me everything he promised.

Another was the District Manager of a company I used to work for who made me quit so that we wouldn't get in trouble and paid me my full wages for like 6 months until he moved to the East Coast.

My last one was a Seeking Arrangement match from 4 years ago who I could probably call and get back into an arrangement with, but honestly he could have me for free bc he's a SUPER hot construction company CEO and the best combination of a HUGE and PRETTY cock I've ever seen