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i have recently started a relationship with an older, wealthy man. We have been together several times but so far just to meet at his house for sex. How can I take this to the next level and get him to pay my bills?

To complicate matters, I am married to a woman. He talks about taking me for international travel, etc. but so far nothing.
 

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Either you’re a bot or incredibly stupid. This is a forum for gay men.

There is no need to be nasty about it. If you don’t want to answer the question then just move on. I am sincerely asking if anyone has any experience in this area. I am dl and have been with plenty of guys. I have read enough on here to know I am not the first with this particular dilemma.
 

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There is no need to be nasty about it. If you don’t want to answer the question then just move on. I am sincerely asking if anyone has any experience in this area. I am dl and have been with plenty of guys. I have read enough on here to know I am not the first with this particular dilemma.

I was replying to the bot on this thread that has since been removed.

My reply to you is the first one on the thread.
 

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There is no need to be nasty about it. If you don’t want to answer the question then just move on. I am sincerely asking if anyone has any experience in this area. I am dl and have been with plenty of guys. I have read enough on here to know I am not the first with this particular dilemma.

He was only responding to a Spam post that WAS right under your first post. The Spam post has since been removed, but his response to the spam is still here. It had nothing to do with you.
 
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i have recently started a relationship with an older, wealthy man. We have been together several times but so far just to meet at his house for sex. How can I take this to the next level and get him to pay my bills?

To complicate matters, I am married to a woman. He talks about taking me for international travel, etc. but so far nothing.



My comments will likely have no impact on you, but here goes anyhow.
When you look in the mirror what you see is your physical image. What you should see is a very disturbed individual driven totally by self-serving motivations. You are less than an empty suit (thanks Clint Eastwood for the comment).

You are the kind of guy who would eat ice cream in front of starving children or take the last lifeboat while leaving others on a sinking ship.

There is a good chance you will be able to hook-up with your Sugar Daddy. And if the old adage holds, which states, “What goes around will come around,” the relationship will last until he discovers your true nature (and his). Then he will leave you, tooth brush in hand, to fend for yourself some where in Nigeria.


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My comments will likely have no impact on you, but here goes anyhow.
When you look in the mirror what you see is your physical image. What you should see is a very disturbed individual driven totally by self-serving motivations. You are less than an empty suit (thanks Clint Eastwood for the comment).

You are the kind of guy who would eat ice cream in front of starving children or take the last lifeboat while leaving others on a sinking ship.

There is a good chance you will be able to hook-up with your Sugar Daddy. And if the old adage holds, which states, “What goes around will come around,” the relationship will last until he discovers your true nature (and his). Then he will leave you, tooth brush in hand, to fend for yourself some where in Nigeria.


'I didn't want my mum to know': The men and boys arrested for being gay in Nigeria

I think you are being very judgemental about a person you know very little about. There are a lot of reasons why someone wants to be paid for sex or offered international travel. It is a business arrangement where both parties are getting something out of the relationship that they want. Just like every other business relationship.

He is asking for advice from someone who maybe has actual experience with this kind of thing. If I don't have anything positive to add, then I move on. Maybe you have done this yourself and you regret it. Just say that rather than condemning another person pursuing something they want to try. There are plenty of rent boys that enjoy what they do. And there are plenty of clients that enjoy rent boys.
 
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I think you are being very judgemental about a person you know very little about. There are a lot of reasons why someone wants to be paid for sex or offered international travel. It is a business arrangement where both parties are getting something out of the relationship that they want. Just like every other business relationship.

He is asking for advice from someone who maybe has actual experience with this kind of thing. If I don't have anything positive to add, then I move on. Maybe you have done this yourself and you regret it. Just say that rather than condemning another person pursuing something they want to try. There are plenty of rent boys that enjoy what they do. And there are plenty of clients that enjoy rent boys.

Thank you Levi. The previous poster clearly did not understand where I am coming from. I am already hooking up with him. It’s nit that I want paid for it but I would like to get him to buy me things etc. I am into him so it’s bit like it’s just about money but I wouldn’t exactly turn down a Rolex. I think we both went into this relationship with our eyes open to the other. Just wanting some advice on how I can now monetize the relationship I am already I.
 
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Thank you Levi. The previous poster clearly did not understand where I am coming from. I am already hooking up with him. It’s nit that I want paid for it but I would like to get him to buy me things etc. I am into him so it’s bit like it’s just about money but I wouldn’t exactly turn down a Rolex. I think we both went into this relationship with our eyes open to the other. Just wanting some advice on how I can now monetize the relationship I am already I.
Thank you Levi. The previous poster clearly did not understand where I am coming from. I am already hooking up with him. It’s nit that I want paid for it but I would like to get him to buy me things etc. I am into him so it’s bit like it’s just about money but I wouldn’t exactly turn down a Rolex. I think we both went into this relationship with our eyes open to the other. Just wanting some advice on how I can now monetize the relationship I am already I.




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I appreciate your comments above and have regularly benefited from your many levelheaded and informative post on LPSG.

Fortunately none of my personal live has gone down this road. But I have a number of dear friends who have participated in many similar kinds of relationships. And I have often been the compassionate ear and sometimes the physical resource to help clean up a bad ending.

Thus far the OP clearly indicates he is working toward a personal objective that may include the deception of either a wife or a consort or both. If there were any redemption to this kind of arrangement it would be that the two (or three) parties involved have an honest and open working arrangement.

Most relationships include unspoken expectations. For example one admirer will entertain another with dinner, gifts, and attention in order to gain their favor, or be able to assess the other individuals intention toward them.

This can be serious business. On two occasions during one of my jobs I have needed to be involved in situations where one male killed another because a girl friend found herself accepting attention from one guy and being courted by another.

I find the role of a paid sexual companion for either male or female to be degrading on a number of different ethical levels. This is not information the OP wants to deal with in this thread but it will be there to be dealt with sooner or later.
 

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A friend of mine started hooking up with an older gentleman that had some money. The guy didn't give my friend money or gifts, but he did let me friend use his cars or his boat. The problem was that the older guy started wanting more, and my friend wasn't into the older guy. So it ended very fast.

A few years later, a different friend of mine, started hooking up with the same older guy. He at first started driving the older guy's cars, but a few months later, he had moved in with the older guy. He was always driving the cars and spending the older guy's money. They later sold that house and moved into another house and he helped renovate the house. One day, my friend went home to find out the the older guy had thrown all of my friend's stuff out. My friend was left, broke, without a car and without a home. A few months later the older guy died. He had written into his will that my friend got absolutely nothing and everything went to the kids of the older guy. The same kids that never had anything to do with their dad.
 
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He was only responding to a Spam post that WAS right under your first post. The Spam post has since been removed, but his response to the spam is still here. It had nothing to do with you.

Thank you @cedarizzo
 
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A friend of mine started hooking up with an older gentleman that had some money. The guy didn't give my friend money or gifts, but he did let me friend use his cars or his boat. The problem was that the older guy started wanting more, and my friend wasn't into the older guy. So it ended very fast.

A few years later, a different friend of mine, started hooking up with the same older guy. He at first started driving the older guy's cars, but a few months later, he had moved in with the older guy. He was always driving the cars and spending the older guy's money. They later sold that house and moved into another house and he helped renovate the house. One day, my friend went home to find out the the older guy had thrown all of my friend's stuff out. My friend was left, broke, without a car and without a home. A few months later the older guy died. He had written into his will that my friend got absolutely nothing and everything went to the kids of the older guy. The same kids that never had anything to do with their dad.

Shit got real. Kind of like after you cum and are like, "why the hell is this person in my home?"
 
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