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LadyCaramelGodiva is spot on. With all due respect, I feel nailz is making moral judgments. We all understand that this is not for you. We also understand that human relationships are complex. Sometimes, the agreement between parties is pretty mundane, as in monthly maintenance payments in exchange for regular sex and nice dates. If they also enjoy each other as friends, they are lucky. Please answer me this- if there is NOT a financial element in male/female relationships, then why do marriages break up over this issue? Ditto with sex. Romantic love is wonderful, but it is not enough to keep everything together. If a man is a deadbeat who won't work, a woman may leave him. If a woman refuses to have sex, then a man is going to look elsewhere. Love and marriage can be sublime and maintained with self-sacrifice and pure emotions, but most people also need the mundane. Human beings can be weak, and they need normal things. Maybe longcockguyand lover is tired of striking out in relationships, and he is lonely and horny. If he can find a girl who needs some financial help, and is fun to be with, and he can afford the relationship, then why is this bad?