I'll post this here instead of Sex With A Large Penis because this is the forum the posters I trust frequent the most. If it needs to be moved, so be it. I love to milk my man's penis while he's inside me. By this I mean to say I like to use deliberate, slow, directional contractions of my vaginal muscles to stroke him back while he's stroking me. I also love to be pounded ridiculously hard. By this I mean hard enough that one lover thought he was too short to satisfy me, another asked if I'd ever been abused, and most men cannot fuck me as hard as I can tolerate once I get going. Here's the problem: I cannot do both simultaneously. The contractions often put my cervix in the way at precisely the wrong moment, and they also make me significantly more sensitive. It becomes painful sometimes even if the stroke totally by-passes my cervix. Sometimes it makes my pubic bone hurt. This is a new problem. With age, I have become more orgasmic, and more sensitive. New, wonderful feelings are possible, older, more familiar pleasures are, I guess, not all working out. Just for fun, can we put our heads together and think of positions for me to try Where I can get the increased pleasure from squeezing, but with none of the pain from squeezing that I get during a really good, hard, intense, prolonged pounding? And can you describe why you think that might work? So far I've tried missionary, doggy style, laying flat on my belly, lying flat on my back, and sitting in his lap facing him. If you think you know why none of these positions have worked, I'm curious to have those opinions too. I also understand I may be asking for something impossible.