Suggestions?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by bgr_thn_avrg, Nov 11, 2009.

  1. bgr_thn_avrg

    bgr_thn_avrg New Member

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    Maybe this isn't something that can be resolved from here, but. I just got out of a four month relationship three weeks ago. She had her next guy picked out before we split up and moved on immediately. I don't have insecurity problems, so haven't moved into another relationship yet. I have however slept with four women since. But I'm not the kind of person to think I'm doing great things by having sex. I'm getting laid and being social, but I still feel rather lackluster and am extremely bored. I thought something exciting would make me feel better, so I had an affair.(I know, and I am a dick for it, he deserves to kick my ass hard-if he ever finds out). But the affair didn't even spice it up for me. Any suggestions?
     
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    I think you're depressed.
    Really sounds like it from your post...

    So I suggest you try to get over her, see friends, do stuff,...
    And don't try to get over her by trying to replace her, that wouldn't work and hurt both you and the "replacement girl".
     
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