Well, it seems like everybody's dismissing & ignoring my comments. That's fine.
What won't be fine is when the thread starter gets tired of trying.
He can't do all the heavy lifting by himself.
He's gonna try & try then one day he's gonna stop & that's when the REAL problems will begin.
PEOPLE—not just men, not just women—PEOPLE will seek out someone else when they don't feel appreciated in a relationship.
There's no such thing as "he'll never do that" or "she'll never do that".
Keep messing around & find out why the saying goes 'Never Say Never'.
John Lucas