Supervisor at work started about 6 months ago. Everyone likes him and he is very good looking. A couple months ago he came into the lunch area where I was eating and I asked him jokingly if he brought me something to eat. He replied "I have something that I would like to feed ya". A couple nights ago, I was eating in a small breakroom and he came in and sat with me while I was eating and put his leg up so I had a clear view of his crotch. He does by the way have a very impressive package. After I returned to work, I asked him to come and look at a defective piece of equipment. His reply to me was "I have something I really want to show you!" I suspect he knows I am gay and would suck him off without blinking an eye. I am not out at work, but as things happen some people do suspect me. Is it wrong to blow him and keep it descrete, or am I asking for more trouble than is necessary to maintain a working relationship? Has anyone ever had a similar experience?
Wrong? Yes. You shouldn't bring that kind of stuff into the work place. It never turns out well. Fun? Oh yeah!
Your supervisor is walking a dangerous path. Someone else in the same position as you might not be quite so tolerant - even if you are attracted to him. If you want something to happen between the two of you, I suggest you look for another job first and then you'll be free to do whatever you want with whoever you want.
Run for the hills Heidi. Seriously, never shit on your own doorstep, cock is easy to find, jobs this day isn't.
Bite your tongue. He is hot and hung. If he is an asshole and the sex was sucky...then you can holler rape and sue for sexual harassment. :tongue:
Your supervisor is an idiot to be flirting with you like this. I've always thought that sex with idiots is overrated. My guess is that he's trying to make you do the first move, so it's "not his fault". By all means, do it if you want to, but he's a fool if he goes through with it.
As much as I wanted to do my former supervisor I restrained myself and just fantasized about it. While some people knew about me at work and others called me names behind my back I still went in to do my job and that was basically it. The homophobic managers (male and female) I did have always tried to figure out ways to get me fired (luckily I was a union employee and they couldn't fire me without just cause). Since you're in Michigan too, maybe they're trying to get rid of you and he can turn it around to sexual harassment (with the way companies are now you have to watch yourself) so I'd start documenting whenever he makes a comment just to protect yourself. If either one of you leave the company then let the fun begin!
DON'T DO IT!!! Sex and the workplace (even discreet) do not mix!! Trust me on this, it always ends bad!
Thank you to everyone that posted a reply to my situation. I can honestly say that I am relieved that I did not start something that may have cost me my job or turned into a workplace nightmare. After reading the replies, everyone seems to agree that it is either a setup to get me fired, or my supervisor is trying to get me to make the first move....NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. As one said, Cock is easy to find...jobs are not.
I've had sex with several co-workers, but they weren't my supervisor and we hooked up away from work. This situation feels dangerous to me. The hottest of my co-worker hook-ups was with a hot, pierced-tongued, big-cocked, athletic bodied dude who told me after shooting hot love lava in my mouth that his wife was " in the hospital having his baby"! I felt exceptionally dirty and hot and wanted to suck another load of baby batter out of him. He came over a couple of other times and ended up blowing me and making out with me. I'm a bad puppy, I know!
A lot of the comments here seem to be a bit paranoid, and I wonder if you guys would be giving the same advice if it was a heterosexual attraction. My advice would be, try to get to know him in a social setting away from work. You never know he might be the love of your life.
