Suppose There Was A Place Just For Men (only) Into Other Men

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I'm talking about a piece of land, maybe an island, where women and children are forbidden. Where we can completely re-write the laws to suit us (for example, public nudity is fine, even encouraged; sex in public is not grounds for arrest, porn is freely available on broadcast TV, etc., etc.) Basically, all of the restrictions on man sex are completely lifted, except insofar as private property is respected (e.g, you can require formal dress at your restaurant) and hygiene is looked after (in the kitchen, say).

Would you be interested in living in such a place full time (with the full ability to travel as desired)?
Would you maybe want to live there part-time, more than a month out of the year, less than 11 months?
Would you just want to visit or vacation there?
Would you not want to go there at all.

Basically, I'm thinking like Israel but for gay and bi men instead of Jews. LOL A sort of man-sex homeland. Like a clothing optional resort but scaled up to a small city-state or country with our own government and economy.
 

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I like this idea, perhaps as a summer retreat for me. I couldn't live there year round because of employment and family situations.

I use to think that this sanctuary you proposed was a "gay bar." At least it seemed that way for quite sometime and then suddenly females started frequenting gay bars killing the over all mood and pleasures you could assume for an all male gay establishment.

Honestly it still pisses me off and unfortunately it is the norm now! Thankfully there are gay bars / establishments that still strictly adhere to all male cliental like Touche in Chicago. Touche has an awesome backroom where the following is common; sucking, fucking, dancing, porn playing on television, cages, hot bartenders in skimpy underwear. Damn I am horny now...lol.

Sorry for deviating a little from the topic but it is still related.
 

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We have something like that already. It's called fire island lol.

I've never actually been there, though I'd love to go some time and seem what it's all about. Same with Provincetown. (And would a guy of my age, looking as I do, and mostly bottoming do well in those places?)

I have been to Palm Springs, and while I like the atmosphere, it's not quite as free as what I envision here. I would love to be in a place where I know for sure that every man I see is into sex with men on some level. How liberating would that be? To be rid of the constant "Is he or isn't he? If I hit on him and he's straight, will this go sideways?" Plus, law enforcement has been known to cause trouble in even the most gay-oriented of places. We'd have police of course, but the laws they enforce would be written to support us, not restrict and control us.
 

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I like this idea, perhaps as a summer retreat for me. I couldn't live there year round because of employment and family situations.

I use to think that this sanctuary you proposed was a "gay bar." At least it seemed that way for quite sometime and then suddenly females started frequenting gay bars killing the over all mood and pleasures you could assume for an all male gay establishment.

Honestly it still pisses me off and unfortunately it is the norm now! Thankfully there are gay bars / establishments that still strictly adhere to all male cliental like Touche in Chicago. Touche has an awesome backroom where the following is common; sucking, fucking, dancing, porn playing on television, cages, hot bartenders in skimpy underwear. Damn I am horny now...lol.

Sorry for deviating a little from the topic but it is still related.

Unfortunately the problem is the public accommodation laws, which are generally a very good thing. But they do prevent us from keeping the women out of places they don't belong. One solution is to have private parties which are allowed to limit things just to men, because you're allowed to book a space, throw a party and invite whoever you want.

That's how many baths seem to operate (and I'm also proposing a "bathhouse" or a "gay clothing optional resort") And that is where the idea comes from, but I'm thinking on a grander scale. This place, like any other, would have need of bartenders and DJs, but also restaurant staff, retail workers, delivery drivers, administrative and government staff, even bus drivers, truck drivers, construction workers, contractors, medical professionals and everything else a community needs.

And if you CAN work from home these days, you could work from here. Family is a consideration, but many of us live apart from our families anyway.
 
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This place, like any other, would have need of bartenders and DJs, but also restaurant staff, retail workers, delivery drivers, administrative and government staff, even bus drivers, truck drivers, construction workers, contractors, medical professionals and everything else a community needs.

And if you CAN work from home these days, you could work from here. Family is a consideration, but many of us live apart from our families anyway.

Fire Island Pines is like this in the summer. However it caters to affluent New Yorkers and is very expensive. Not practical for most people.
 

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Fire Island Pines is like this in the summer. However it caters to affluent New Yorkers and is very expensive. Not practical for most people.

Yes, and that's a problem. One thing I see is how younger men who don't have wealthy backgrounds have a much harder time finding a way to get to places where we still gather to live together. Of course, there's a lot of support online that wasn't there at all when I was young, but I worry about that 18 year old young man who needs a place he can go and live and discover himself and feel free to explore himself, free of the kind of oppression that society still can impose.

I think about all of the men who were there to offer support to me during that critical 18-23 year old period, where I learned so much about who I was and what that entailed and what I could and should feel free to do and be and I worry that that simply isn't available as much to younger men these days, simply due to the much greater expense of urban living today.
 

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We have something like that already. It's called fire island lol.

More like man-whore island. Not that there’s anything wrong with it. If you’re young, white and full of muscles, you’ll be adored as the king/queen? of the island. If you’re anything else, you may as well be invisible and blend in with the shrubs on the sidewalk.
 

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More like man-whore island. Not that there’s anything wrong with it. If you’re young, white and full of muscles, you’ll be adored as the king/queen? of the island. If you’re anything else, you may as well be invisible and blend in with the shrubs on the sidewalk.
My thoughts exactly. Whenever these scenarios pop up, people always always always only think of fit muscled men everywhere. Never the "undesirables" like me. It sounds like it would be hell for me as I'm sure people would be even more openly rude or forward showing their disinterest and disgust. Probably would make a law you must be under a certain body fat to live there.
 

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The slutty social teacher is here.
Firstly, women tend to be better in social structure, even better than homosexuals in general, so a lesbian land would be more viable hypothetically, the male libido is very high, this is so because it works as a reward to reproduce with women, that is why women tend to prioritize the social status of a man to provide the best development conditions for their children, while men seek an attractive physique that can satisfy their sexual desires, that is, receive an intense brain reward like drugs would. This being the case, homosexuals do not have many barriers like heterosexual men have with women who tend to be more demanding and take more time to get to the moment of intimacy. so our survival depends on living scattered and in a low percentage, otherwise we would be fucking all day, the fact that we have so much sex even though our sex market is low already speaks of how disastrous such a scenario would be. Even as a society awared of the use of prep and condoms, it would be difficult because, in addition, sex takes a lot of time to do other important activities, this was seen in the last century and the AIDS epidemics, if we do not know how to control our impulses ,nature by herself will take over. Obviously I based on scientific generalizations, it does not mean that all fags are whores, but it would be the most likely scenario. Let me know your opinion on this bitches.
 

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I've never actually been there, though I'd love to go some time and seem what it's all about. Same with Provincetown. (And would a guy of my age, looking as I do, and mostly bottoming do well in those places?)

I have been to Palm Springs, and while I like the atmosphere, it's not quite as free as what I envision here. I would love to be in a place where I know for sure that every man I see is into sex with men on some level. How liberating would that be? To be rid of the constant "Is he or isn't he? If I hit on him and he's straight, will this go sideways?" Plus, law enforcement has been known to cause trouble in even the most gay-oriented of places. We'd have police of course, but the laws they enforce would be written to support us, not restrict and control us.
Definitely would be great if it’s a gay resort type situation if it was on a private island. But otherwise I guess we just have to deal with Palm Springs or places like Wilton manors in Florida. Can anybody recommend a great day resort
 

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I'm talking about a piece of land, maybe an island, where women and children are forbidden. Where we can completely re-write the laws to suit us (for example, public nudity is fine, even encouraged; sex in public is not grounds for arrest, porn is freely available on broadcast TV, etc., etc.) Basically, all of the restrictions on man sex are completely lifted, except insofar as private property is respected (e.g, you can require formal dress at your restaurant) and hygiene is looked after (in the kitchen, say).

Would you be interested in living in such a place full time (with the full ability to travel as desired)?
Would you maybe want to live there part-time, more than a month out of the year, less than 11 months?
Would you just want to visit or vacation there?
Would you not want to go there at all.

Basically, I'm thinking like Israel but for gay and bi men instead of Jews. LOL A sort of man-sex homeland. Like a clothing optional resort but scaled up to a small city-state or country with our own government and economy.

Yeah I'd go if it was more like a vacation resort thing, as long as it didn't get too commune/cult-like which can happen. I've heard about some all-men communes/cults like this that get too hung up on escaping society rather than creating a complimentary or parallel society. I'd hate to get swept up in a cult (again. Don't ask).

But if the island reached the ideal that you were seeking, it would probably be pretty utopian for me. I do think gay-friendly voyeuristic women should be allowed, as long as they know what they're getting themselves into by entering. That would be a way around the public accommodation law, and who doesn't like a female friend who encourages man-on-man action and likes to watch?
 

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My thoughts exactly. Whenever these scenarios pop up, people always always always only think of fit muscled men everywhere. Never the "undesirables" like me. It sounds like it would be hell for me as I'm sure people would be even more openly rude or forward showing their disinterest and disgust. Probably would make a law you must be under a certain body fat to live there.
Sweetie, with a cock like yours, you’d be welcome on my man-whore island anytime. On my man-whore island all body types would be admired and respected. Fat-shaming or any other kind of body prejudices would be frowned upon, and could be grounds for banishment from the island altogether. All naked horny men would be welcome with open arms, or I guess I’m my case, an open hole.
 

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I would live and work there full time, offering my body to as many of my fellow males as wanted it, any time, any place. Love that about sex resorts. You stay naked, you can be having a casual conversation and a guy can come up, fondle you, suck you, even fuck you while you are talking and it's treated as totally normal male sex beast behavior. I dream of living and working my body in such a place.
 

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I'm talking about a piece of land, maybe an island, where women and children are forbidden. Where we can completely re-write the laws to suit us (for example, public nudity is fine, even encouraged; sex in public is not grounds for arrest, porn is freely available on broadcast TV, etc., etc.) Basically, all of the restrictions on man sex are completely lifted, except insofar as private property is respected (e.g, you can require formal dress at your restaurant) and hygiene is looked after (in the kitchen, say).

Would you be interested in living in such a place full time (with the full ability to travel as desired)?
Would you maybe want to live there part-time, more than a month out of the year, less than 11 months?
Would you just want to visit or vacation there?
Would you not want to go there at all.

Basically, I'm thinking like Israel but for gay and bi men instead of Jews. LOL A sort of man-sex homeland. Like a clothing optional resort but scaled up to a small city-state or country with our own government and economy.
I'd totally vacation there.
 
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The slutty social teacher is here.
Firstly, women tend to be better in social structure, even better than homosexuals in general, so a lesbian land would be more viable hypothetically, the male libido is very high, this is so because it works as a reward to reproduce with women, that is why women tend to prioritize the social status of a man to provide the best development conditions for their children, while men seek an attractive physique that can satisfy their sexual desires, that is, receive an intense brain reward like drugs would. This being the case, homosexuals do not have many barriers like heterosexual men have with women who tend to be more demanding and take more time to get to the moment of intimacy. so our survival depends on living scattered and in a low percentage, otherwise we would be fucking all day, the fact that we have so much sex even though our sex market is low already speaks of how disastrous such a scenario would be. Even as a society awared of the use of prep and condoms, it would be difficult because, in addition, sex takes a lot of time to do other important activities, this was seen in the last century and the AIDS epidemics, if we do not know how to control our impulses ,nature by herself will take over. Obviously I based on scientific generalizations, it does not mean that all fags are whores, but it would be the most likely scenario. Let me know your opinion on this bitches.


'Lord of the flies' springs to mind ;-)