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Communual showers is something I have avoided for a long time (I'll explain why) and have recently found myself thinking about it more and more so I was really glad to have found a thread on here discussing it and decided to join the forum because of it.


My early experiences was in York Hall open showers and then in Uni. I was always taught to keep my boxers on and cover myself with a towel which I did at all cost whenever I went swimming or used the gym showers. My rule was simple, keep my arse hidden.

The issue was I enjoyed taking peaks at bums and realised that I may be gay but aggresively shut down any thoughts. I particularly enjoyed when older men looked at me and it would result in a hard on for me, I stopped using communual showers soon after I became 20.

Im from my an ethnic minority background who is born and raised in London.

anyone willing to guide me on this journey? I want to try some open showers/saunas in London.
 

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I avoided communal showers for a long time (I'll explain why) ...in York Hall open showers and in Uni...whenever I used the gym showers. My rule was simple, keep my arse hidden...The issue was I enjoyed taking peaks at bums and realised that I may be gay but aggresively shut down any thoughts. I particularly enjoyed when older men looked at me and it would result in a hard on for me, I stopped using communual showers soon after I became 20... I want to try some open showers/saunas in London. anyone willing to guide me on this journey?

I hope you become comfortable being nude around other men in a communal setting someday PositiveExplorer. Everyone looks, but its nothing to be worried about IMO. A man gazing at crotches, tits and buttocks actually is a naturally occuring involuntary phenomenon - regardless of sexuality. Study Reveals Men Are Crotch-Watchers - Towleroad Gay News
And erections are a healthy part of a male's physiology and are more common in youth.
Have fun exploring here and IRL. Welcome to lpsg! :sun: :D
 

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Communual showers is something I have avoided for a long time (I'll explain why) and have recently found myself thinking about it more and more so I was really glad to have found a thread on here discussing it and decided to join the forum because of it.


My early experiences was in York Hall open showers and then in Uni. I was always taught to keep my boxers on and cover myself with a towel which I did at all cost whenever I went swimming or used the gym showers. My rule was simple, keep my arse hidden.

The issue was I enjoyed taking peaks at bums and realised that I may be gay but aggresively shut down any thoughts. I particularly enjoyed when older men looked at me and it would result in a hard on for me, I stopped using communual showers soon after I became 20.

Im from my an ethnic minority background who is born and raised in London.

anyone willing to guide me on this journey? I want to try some open showers/saunas in London.
Welcome! Enjoy your journey and all you discover!