Survey for the exhibitionists... size and motive

[cobra8]

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. To further explain the weird dynamics I’ll share an example. I’m in a long term straight relationship and most of our friend group are other straight couples. At a party once many years ago by chance I was talking to a couple female friends, sisters, on a staircase and they we a couple steps down more on level with my groin than my eyes. It was an eighties theme party and I was wearing my tightest jeans going for a knight rider kinda look. The jeans were tight enough that my bulge was on display. One of the girls jokingly poked my bulge and laughing said something like, wow nice bulge what did you stuff in there? As she poked it and then actually gave it quite a squeeze she realized from the feel and the look on my face I didn’t stuff anything in there, the other girl, her sister was quite amused and also gave it a squeeze to realize the same. I was mixed on how to feel, in the moment it was very exciting as they were both attractive and got kinda blushed and giggly over it. As it evolved I assume they told others like their partners and I noticed a sharp change in how I interacted with their partners and with how they interacted with me and my partner. Essentially there was distance and a feeling of jealousy from the guys and an uncomfortable treatment of my partner and it felt like that was all they were focused on when we’d interact. I guess not that weird but I would have rathered it all didn’t happen and things were normal. I know not a big deal but jealousy and lust are strong emotions in people. It is nice to be desired by others but I’ve had other interactions and when some women know you’ve got a lot they get quite strange and forward. It’s actually made me much more careful about how I act in any sexual or flirtatious way towards women. Being ogled and having your crotch grabbed or stared at in the wrong setting or too close a friend group social environment creates more awkwardness and future weird vibes than it does a thrill in the moment.
When travelling, the moment is more fun as the inter-relationship stuff isn’t an issue. Also the context of nude beaches, adult only resorts and the vacation mindset remove all the hang ups I have and the whole scenario is fun. Long answer but it’s a unique nuanced dynamic.

Thanks for sharing your story! I get how it’s both exciting and awkward. I wonder how many fun moments like that that I missed because I didn’t want to quit the potential being awkward.
Wearing pants that show your bulge is borderline is it showing off or is it as hidden as it can be? How do you all judge a bulge or feel judged?

Also I want to hear your opinions about wearing kilts the “traditional way” (nothing underneath) would you judge someone for risking exposure or respect that’s the proper way to wear a kilt?

 

[cobra8]

When I don’t expose myself it’s not out of my insecurity but concerns for others insecurity.

 

[ItalianBD]

I started doing it recently, mostly because I like showing off my size. I'm always looking for situations and new dares to show it off!

 

[is that real]

I’ve never shown myself hard in real life other than one friend who saw a photo on my laptop when with a group of friends - my wife lied and said it must have been something downloaded online by accident

I have done a few soft hotel room or legit massage flashes. A few of my female friends have also had the unfortunate experience of catching me changing and one on holiday caught me “up shorts” when I was far from best.

I’m not mentioning the photo from my holiday where I unknowingly posted a photo my wife took where you could see up my swim shorts (it wasn’t obvious without looking)

I just wish I had something that was worth exposing

 

[CockPosing4U]

I seek to expose myself at any and every opportunity. I can feel it when eyes are on my cock, it makes me grow. I especially like being seen hard. Even on-line I get aroused when people message me to tell me they are looking at my pics.

 

[pornmbk]

I started doing it recently, mostly because I like showing off my size. I'm always looking for situations and new dares to show it off!

That's cool! I think it's great when hung guys want to show off - if you've got a big cock you have every right to flaunt it!

When/where did you first do it? And how big is it btw, length and girth, soft and hard?

 

[pornmbk]

I seek to expose myself at any and every opportunity. I can feel it when eyes are on my cock, it makes me grow. I especially like being seen hard. Even on-line I get aroused when people message me to tell me they are looking at my pics.

That's hot AF! And I just checked out your pics - no wonder you want to expose yourself all the time and get off on ppl staring with a cock as fucking huge as that!

 

[Veinous]

The risk is part of the thrill. Have let it out at the gym, driving, in parking lots, jogging trails, etc. Doesn't matter soft or hard, but usually because of the rush I'm hard when I do it.