I know I'm not huge like a lot of the guys here, but I would definitely say I fall into the "big" category. The thing is that I hang pretty small/low average, I think about 4.5" long. I need to buy a new swim suit for the upcoming summer and I am unsure if I should try and hide a bulge all together, or attempt to show what little I have (soft). On the one hand I can recall an instance where I was going into the pool just after going to the bathroom (where I expanded a bit) and caught a girl doing a double take, and thought it was pretty hot. On the other, with the shrinkage of the water and already not being a shower I don't really like showing a rather small bulge. I'm sure not all growers would like to show, but I'd bet that some around here have similar issues and I'd like to hear their take on the matter.