Wow...there's a whole lot of shit to unpack there! No idea that the issues went that deep. But, you make several points that someone, somewhere is going to have to adequately address. And, it does often seem now like it's the men who are just trying to get on with it who get left in the lurch. No argument there. I obviously am not having to deal with issues that go that deep...I'm just tired of having to accommodate people who seem to think that having what god gave you---for better or for worse---- is "nasty" in some way.
