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Has anyone here been to swinger type of clubs or events? Swinger may actually be the wrong word as I don't necessarily mean swapping or switching partners, but rather an environment where people can feel comfortable in a sexual setting without any expectations.

What have your experiences been like generally?
 

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As a gay guy I have attended quite a few nude parties (male only). They are of course sex oriented but have taken place at venues which resemble a regular bar/night club. Mostly the atmosphere is cheerful and relaxed in the bar area, but it usually gets very raunchy elsewhere. Have always had a great time there either observing or taking part in the action.
 
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Has anyone here been to swinger type of clubs or events? Swinger may actually be the wrong word as I don't necessarily mean swapping or switching partners, but rather an environment where people can feel comfortable in a sexual setting without any expectations.

What have your experiences been like generally?

I've been to a few and my experiences have always been pretty hit or miss, even at the same venue. Usually the crowd skews older but the good venues will do specific theme nights to draw in newer members and sometimes they'll do events that are for certain scenes/communities which can be helpful for deciding when to go. The best clubs also have staff who give newcomers a tour and help keep an eye on you to make sure you're comfortable. My main recommendation is to not expect a lot on your first visit and to just go to scope it out, without necessarily planning on participating, that way you can ease into things.
 

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I've been to a few and my experiences have always been pretty hit or miss, even at the same venue. Usually the crowd skews older but the good venues will do specific theme nights to draw in newer members and sometimes they'll do events that are for certain scenes/communities which can be helpful for deciding when to go. The best clubs also have staff who give newcomers a tour and help keep an eye on you to make sure you're comfortable. My main recommendation is to not expect a lot on your first visit and to just go to scope it out, without necessarily planning on participating, that way you can ease into things.

Thanks a lot :)
 
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I am fortunate to be close to two places that offer an open lifestyle environment with no pressure or requirements. My favorite is a renovated motel (www.mon-chalet.com). They have rooms decorated for sex with porn on the TV, mirrors, lighting and some rooms come with sex chairs.

The main attraction is the "clothing optional" pool. They have projection screens showing porn, hot tubs and an open "play area" where people have sex. I have had sex there many times with many women and couples. The main thing is no pressure on anyone to do anything! It has been great fun with no negative results.

Do a search in your area for sex oriented motels/hotels. You might be surprised what you find.
 
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