1. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    Okay - I know I have been starting topics like crazy lately...Just in a writing mood...But about 6 or 7 months ago - I ended up at a swingers club w/3 guy friends of mine - admittedly I don't remember any of it because I was pretty wasted and didn't even remember being there which is scary till about 2 or 3 weeks later when I spoke w/one of the guys on the phone that he told me that we all went and meet some girls there and kind of went in one of the back sex areas...Ok I ended up going a couple of months after that - this time sober actually this time because a dj friend of mine was djing there and wanted us to come and hear him...I must say that I was surprised because I was expecting some sleazy, sticky floor, shady type of place...This place was pretty clean and cool - I have little phobias about unsanitary things...And it the people there were really young and attractive...I actually got friendly w/the owners - a husband and wife and got a chance to walk around freely and look and explore...This place mini movie sets all over the facility - I mean there were rooms w/fetish items like restraints and leather and whip, there were rooms that look like hotel rooms, buisness offices, locker rooms and closets w/two way mirrors in them...I saw a lot of blow jobs and half naked and naked folks walking around and a couple of group sex sessions...The people were really friendly and my friend got a little freaked out because the dj's girlfriend was hitting on him while we were all in the dj booth - my friend and the dj were good friends and he had never been to a swinger club and had no idea if the dj was cool w/it because he naturally assumed the guy would get upset - he wasn't - think he liked it...The owner actually gave me a year membership and I did go back maybe once after that - but never participated in anything other than letting a girl grab my cock through my clothes - still not that comfortable w/strangers in such a group setting...But curious if anyone else has been to a swingers club w/a partner or by yourself - it is pretty popular among couples and usually can't even get into the sex areas unless you are a couple or more...
     
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    I have never been to one, but I have wanted to go for some time now.
    There is supposedly a really good one in PA called TJ's Impressions.
    One of these days...
     
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    Yeah - I think that is what interested me - really curiousity and not a sexual need...
     
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    Pene,

    Sure, I go to the clubs alone and sometimes escort a woman and occasionally two. There are different types of clubs and clubs of varying quality. I prefer the higher end where undesirable attributes such as drug traffic are frowned upon. Once you're on the circuit these things become more apparent but as in anything else you often have to try out different flavors to find the variety you like best and of course you need to be careful out there.
     
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    Yeah - this place according to the owner - trying to attract the young club scene and combine it w/the swinger community...I just found it very fascinating because in my mind I thought just weirdos would be in there - but like I said these folks were young and hot and I had some of the most normal and interesting conversations w/people there...And I didn't feel uncomfortable - no one was trying to push up on me - got some stares but that was ok...But this place did have a lot of drugs circulating...
     
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    iwfuutaudls: I find that the vast majority of swinger and fetish clubs in California have lots of shady people and alot of illicit activities going on. but i believe that this is due to the sheer size of these two communities here in California.

    many people, such as myself, are into the swinger and fetish lifestyles but i am not into drugs nor i am into any shady or illicit activities. i drink socially but never get drunk, i'll smoke a couple of cigarrettes a week, i'll smoke some pot once a month, but never get shit-faced stoned or anyting like that. i don't know, i am just more concerned with my own health and well-being than most people in these communities appear to be.

    but basically, if you are going to go to a new club, bring alot of friends. and alot of condoms. whenever i try out a new club. i bring my girlfriend and three guy friends and their respective girl friends. we all stay close and in constant sight of each other. if something goes down, we leave together. that way, not only will each individual in the group feel safe but he or she will actually be safer. once we have scouted that club three or four times at varying times of the week and we become comfortable with it, i may just take my girlfriend there and no one else comes with us. but you must scout any and all new clubs with a large group of close friends in order to remain safe in an unpredictable situation. and remember, ALWAYS USE CONDOMS.
     
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    LeahCat: Yes, I regularly go to swingers clubs and have been for the last few years.
     
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    I haven't been to one. I decided a long time ago that if my SO and I switched off, I'd know the couple well.
     
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    orionsword57: The one's I've been to (after my wife's death) were started by older people (40's & 50's), but that was a long time ago when the clubs were more clandestine. They were both very clean and the people were quite intelligent for the most part... mostly ex-hippies, commune-types and liberals at the very beginning of the sexual revolution. I met a lot of fine people, although I ended up being the oldest guy there all the time. I dated one woman I met at one for several years.
     
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    Swinging itself began in the 40s actually, with Air Force pilots during the war. I would not recommend swinging to couples where your marriage is already on the rocks.
     
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