I know there are a few people here who have tried swinging or are active swingers. I've been to a few parties myself, with another couple, but never in a relationship myself. My questions are: Who's tried it and how did it turn out? Did it have an impact on your relationship, positive or negative, and did the effect last? How did it get brought up in the first place? Does anyone have funny/interesting swinging stories? Who wants to try but is too scared to bring it up to their partner?