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Leobakker

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Hi ladies!

Question for the ladies who have been to swingers- or sexparties.

Me and my wife are alsmost 18yrs happy together and have good sex. We want to bring it to a ‘other level’ and we want to try a swingers club. My wife never have done it with a other guy and i would like that she tries it. We are not jealous.

When you went to a swingers club, did you have sex with a ‘stranger’ (guy)?
And when you (or should) had sex with a stranger, where do you select the type of guy on?
What types of guys you should reject?
Do you select on penissize?

Much thanks!

Have a nice weekend!

Greets Leo
 
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I did have sex with someone I met at the event. He was friendly and charismatic. His dick size wasn't at all part of why I chose him. He was polite and not at all pushy. He was not especially handsome or extraordinarily fit. His dick was average. He liked the kind of sex I prefer, which was good. Long, drawn out, slow sex isn't my cuppa tea.
 

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I mostly had sex with my swinging partner. A lot of the time, we had sex with people who were stranger's to me, but good friends of his. Once we had sex with an couple neither of us knew. They approached us. Well, him. I assume they were looking for a black dude with a big dick. They knew absolutely nothing else about him. And actually, it was the husband who approached him alone. I was in the pool, but saw them talking by the bar. The husband showed him a photo. My partner pointed at me, so I waved. We agreed to meet up with them in a private room later, to talk, and see if we wanted to play. They were really sweet, a little nervous. I think we were both more into the wife than into the husband, but I made sure he never had a chance to feel left out. I don't remember anything about fucking those people, honestly, other than it happened, and they were extremely careful about prophylactic barriers. I don't think I had an orgasm, but I was left with a positive impression anyway. We went to a semi-private room for another round by ourselves. This guy who looked like a fat Gandalf came closer to watch. Afterwards, we went out for crab dip and hush puppies, making fun of Fat Gandalf the whole time, because he'd been kind of creepy with me. For some reason, that's my clearest memory. Then we went back to his place and... I dunno. That's it.

I've been to clubs many times, but that's the only time I played with a stranger. It was okay. I think I need to be on better terms with a sexual partner.
 
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