take a diffrent look at facials

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  1. D_Mylor Mentallydaft

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    I have read a lot of these threads about facials, cumfacials ect all with negative responses from women. The word degrading comes up a lot, but I can’t help but think its only because we as men can’t communicate our feelings. Now for a while I thought “they are right its degrading and that why I like it” but after I though about it and read one woman’s post where she admitted she liked rubbing her pussy juice,cum, booty sweat, personal lubrication or what ever you wanna call it on a mans face, I was reminded of a book I read on oral sex, in which it suggests you first give a visibal and verbal signal that you are aroused by the sight, smell and taste of a woman’s vagina. This helps her loosen up and and enjoy the experience of receiving oral sex. Now in practice I have never found this to be untrue, now…. How is a woman being comforted by a man showing his pleasure at her genatial excreations , the very physical result of her arousal by him, any different than a man being turned on by a woman wanting to be showered in his? I mean isn’t that EXACTLY what a woman dose to a man in oral sex? If a woman is squeamish of seman, she always has the option pulling out, if a woman wants oral sex from a man, her cum is always there. But I didn’t mean to appeal facials in terms of fair or unfair, just to express our meaning behind it, do you as women find it demeaning or degrading to get wet on a man’s face or even squirt? Or do you (like me) see it as more of a “here this is my pleasure you’ve given me”?
     
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    For me - I don't care to watch porn with facials on women...there is something about the photographic image that just does not sit well with me.

    BUT, when it is me and hubby (or lover), I actually get quite turned on by the enjoyment my partner is receiving blowing his load. The real surprise to me was that I didn't feel it hitting my skin...it is normal body temp. of any bodily fluids...thus, until it cools...I don't know where it all landed (I admit it - I giggle EVERY FRIGGIN' TIME....WHY??? I think it might just be a nervous reaction to the entire situation...LOL).

    So I confess, I don't want to "see" it all over me, but I don't mind it being there.

    Is that weird?

    And I've always wondered if other women feel the same way????
     
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    Its like some games or sports are boring to watch, but only fun if you play them.
     
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    so facials are like golf... interesting... i think if a girl lets a guy cum in her mouth, then it's a wonderful gesture of the feeling of intimacy -or- an expression of how head over heels she is for him. you can always spit. i would imagine most women are turned off by the very porno act of having vaginal intercourse, only to pull out and unload on the woman's face, as opposed to getting oral sex and coming, in which case her face is already down there. what i mean is, pulling out and going for the face is kind of an extra out-of-the-way step, yeah?
     
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    There is a difference, I think, between a lover choosing to put his or her face into a woman's wetness, and a lover choosing to put his or her wetness all over you.
     
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    I still think facials are degrading and its something I would not do. I would, however, have no problems cumming over a girl's tits/ass/back (if it was ok with her :biggrin: )
     
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    I don't think facials are degrading, per se, unless you have a guy that treats you that way anyway.

    I don't want a man to cum on my face because I want to taste his cum, but that's just my personal preference. Also, it's much sexier, in my opinion, to let a guy continue to enjoy the blow job through (and long past) the orgasm - rather than taking him out of your mouth while he comes so it gets all over your face/hair/eyes/clothes/whatever.

    A woman's pussy juice and a man's cum are two totally different things. Just because a woman is wet doesn't mean she has gotten off. AND, even when a woman DOES come, that doesn't mean she is going to squirt it all over you.

    If you don't like getting your face wet, don't eat pussy.
     
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    Facials: well, i usually shoot into a woman's mouth (or throat). But sometimes I pull out a the moment of ejaculation and spray her mouth, mainly, sometimes shooting into her hair, ears, etc. I have never had a woman complain, though in some cases I think she was disappointed that she didn't get all the cum in her mouth to gulp down. Both acts of ejaculation are very sexy. Women who complain about getting jism on their faces may have a point, it is messy. But so is pussy juice rubbed all over my face when she squats over me. I still love it.
     
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    ok, whats the diffrence? as i once said to a highschool g/f who refused to to give oral but demanded to get it, "you know, when the gross stuff comes out of a man its quick and theres warning, the gross stuff on chics is there all the time"

    but don't you as a woman enjoy it when a man or whomever enjoys your wetness and the experience of your vagina? wouldn't you feel a bit put off if a guy started to go down untill the flower opened and he sat up and said "nope, no way, thats gross and you getting off on me doing it is degrading frankly".....

    but what ever, just thinking out loud so to speak
     
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    First of all, if you think pussy juice is gross, you should avoid heterosexual sex altogether. Condoms do not keep it from getting on your thighs, scrotum, pubic mound, and linens. Also, the scent is the type which lingers, and it will be in the air.

    Next, the fluids from a vagina wash off faster, easier and more completely that semen does. Don't pretend you don't know this.

    Third, I never said semen was gross, or that ejaculating it onto a woman's face, or anywhere else was degrading. However there is, as I said, a difference between choosing to knowingly put your face somewhere which was already wet when you got there, and suddenly getting pelted in the face by something which will hurt if it gets in your eyes, which will be difficult to wash away if it dries, and extremely difficult to remove from your hair.

    Last, why should I have to enjoy a partner's wetness specifically on my face? Am I using my face to get him off? Am I tucking his dick under my chin and letting hi fuck my neck? This makes no sense to me whatsoever. If he's in my mouth, he should come in my mouth, or perhaps on my lips. If he's fucking my tits, he should come on my torso somewhere, or in my mouth if he's hung largely enough to get head while tit-fucking. If he's having one of my lower orifices, why would he stop, travel to the complete opposite end of my body, and unload there? Seems counter-intuitive, like most things in porn. Just some dumb shit to do 'cause he's seen it on TV. :rolleyes:
     
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