taken guy you find cute?

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  1. yman74

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    Here is a question for women here... You work with a guy you think is cute... but taken... Do you?

    1. wooh... hands off.. you will be professional with him, but that is it.

    2. become friendly with him, maybe some innocent flirtation.

    3. become close to him... Give him signs you might be interested if he was available.

    4. go after him. You want him and you don't care about the relationship. He needs to break up and be with you

    5. Why not an affair? You know he will leave her and be with you eventually.
     
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    definitely 3. gentle flirtation never fails.
    Just letting the other side to know that you are interested is enough, 'cause cheating is the worst option.
     
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    1..... hands off I don't want someone else's man if he leaves her for me he might leave me for the next best thing... no thanks!
     
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    Omg there is a guy at my work who is SO HOT!

    I want him. I don't know if he's taken or not. I literally start tripping over things around him. I'm such a nerd.
     
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    Yes I do.
    Yes he is.
    1 - Always.
     
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    How can I find out if this guy in my office is single? He's got to know I like him by the way I act around him.

    Unless he just thinks I'm a spazoid.

    I work with a lot of men and I aint asking them. And the women I do work with I don't know very well yet since I'm still pretty new.(Month and a half)

    He's not wearing a ring, btw.
     
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    Ask someone else in the office.
     
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    See 3rd paragraph :)
     
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    or just ask him
     
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    Oh opps I read to fast. Well if your not going to ask your going to have to wait and see. You could just ask him out to lunch and see what his reaction is and if he says something about a girlfriend or wife you can say you wanted to go as co-workers only.
     
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    Yeah, I'll probably just try and flirt more. I'm way too shy to ask him out. He intimidates me.

    Whoops, I'm sorry...I know this isn't my thread. Didn't mean to steal it.
     
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    #1

    I'm not comfortable with dalliances with co-workers and I'm not interested in a man who would cheat on his girlfriend. That's a turn-off to me. I want a man who would honorably break up with her if he felt that his relationship with her needed to come to an end and who would not begin a new relationship with another woman before the old one was over.
     
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    OMG, NOAHWHEY!!! he's sounds soooo hawtt!!!
    *giggles, blushes* tee-hee *flips hair*

    maybe you could check out his facebook status :smile:
     
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    this is something i generally agree with, but the way i see it is that until there is a ring on her finger a girl is available. i will joke flirt and let er know im available, but i'd rather she leave him than carry on something behind his back.
     
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    I came.
     
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    I'll be friends with a married man in office, but no matter how hot he is - I don't do married/attached guys. Ever.

    However, I had a similar experience with a guy at the office this year. So hot and we have become really good office friends. But.... he's 20 years younger and I am his boss. So, our friendship is restricted to lunch and I get "chaperones". :( Damn, damn, damn!
     
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    I'm definitely a #1, maybe a #2 at most... but I flirt with a lot of people, so it wouldn't be just him.
     
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    HIGHLY doubt any "normal" woman would honestly say 3, 4, or 5.......
     
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