Takes me too long to cum!

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So, for the past few years, it takes me much too long to cum. I can go at it for 2 hours without cumming... maybe even longer. Many times I don't even cum. I've tried some libido pills, although they might have very slightly increased my libido, they also increased stamina, which makes things worse.

I was wondering if anyone knew of any libido enhancing suppliments that would make me hornier or possibly cum faster, more often.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

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This has been dealt with several times before. Maybe you have a biological problem and should see a physician. Maybe you have desensitized yourself erotically through too much porn and/or otherwise. Maybe you don't know or don't acknowledge what really makes you literally orgasmic, because intellectually it seems too weird or dangerous or illegal or whatever. Maybe you have spent too many years masturbating in the same position, in the same way, with the same stimuli, and when you try to do something any other way or with any other person, you can't get there. Maybe you're deeply conflicted about sex and psychologically your mind copes with this by not letting you cum. Just a few ideas.
 

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I agree with much of what swede82 is saying.
I used to masturbate often and eventually I got to thepoint where it just didn't work anymore. Sure if felt good and all but just as I was about to climax I would loose it. My mind would jump to a certain subject that took my out of the moment or I would just get into a song that was playing on the stereo any little distraction. I don't want to have to concentrate to get an orgasm from touching myself.
I'd love a guy that took a minimum of 2 hours to climax. I'm not sure if it's that great for you on the other hand. You'd never be able to have the true quickie and what it you just plain old give out. Your cock may not be pooped but you could be.
My current lover has great cock control. He can cum on command. If it's a quickie he can cum in 10min and it not he has gone for 5+ hours before.
Mind control.....ANUNUNUNUNUNUNUNUNU...ANUNUNUNUNUNUNUNUNUNU...

Anywho! I suggest that you ask your urologist about it. Or at the very least try eating an altion before you get your next BJ.
 

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Well, this is always better than blowing your load within two minutes every time, and there are a LOT of guys like that. What you maybe should try is changing up how you're being stimulated. I mean, sometimes I go on for ages during sex, because I'm not getting the full sensation. When I was going at it the other week, I had the same problem, it felt like I could fuck all night without coming, it just wasn't happening. Then I had her make a V-shape down below, and that bit of extra tightness made me come within five minutes. So I would experiment with all types of positions and different ways of stimulation before thinking there's something wrong with you, because thinking that will only make things worse.
 

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I think the answer to this issue is going to require a personal visit on my part. Is Friday good for you?

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I have the same problem, my girlfriend and I have been dating for two months and I have yet to come during sex. She always goes within a couple minutes then gets tired, I could go for hours but we never get there. It's beginning to get frustrating. Its to the point where she wants to have sex and I dont, because its just work for me.
 

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So, for the past few years, it takes me much too long to cum. I can go at it for 2 hours without cumming... maybe even longer. Many times I don't even cum. I've tried some libido pills, although they might have very slightly increased my libido, they also increased stamina, which makes things worse.

I was wondering if anyone knew of any libido enhancing suppliments that would make me hornier or possibly cum faster, more often.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.


You dont need any pills or anything its all about muscle control, come pay me a visit I will be happy to teach you.

You can practic on me till you get it right.
 

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Love your ads.Go to my pic and see if you hav a jock for my dick
 

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Try doing Kegel exercises to increase the strength of your pc muscle and your ability to control it. Although some men do this to counteract premature ejaculation, it can also be helpful in counteracting delayed ejaculation.

Also, putting pressure on the prostate can sometimes help to trigger an ejaculation. Try experimenting with dildos.
 

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I have the same problem, my girlfriend and I have been dating for two months and I have yet to come during sex. She always goes within a couple minutes then gets tired, I could go for hours but we never get there. It's beginning to get frustrating. Its to the point where she wants to have sex and I dont, because its just work for me.

Thought I would chime In in this. I've been Married for 5 years now and am expecting to have a child and I still have the same "problem" you have to find way to deal with it and a lot of that means working it out with your partner(s). It's not a bad thing just different and enjoy it. Embrace the fact that you can last don't worry about it.

Some things I have done are just lighting some candles and playing some soft music and make a real effort to prolong her orgasm(s) for longer than she thought she could take & or keep taking her to the point were she's just about to go over the edge then stop and go else were till she cools down and then go at it again and just keep doing it until you are both ready to cum.

The other option to that which also works, if your partner is willing to go for it, is tying her up and just taking her for as long as you like and cum when and how you feel like cumming.

Either way, it's all about working with your partner(s) and having fun :)
 

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So, for the past few years, it takes me much too long to cum. I can go at it for 2 hours without cumming... maybe even longer. Many times I don't even cum. I've tried some libido pills, although they might have very slightly increased my libido, they also increased stamina, which makes things worse.

I was wondering if anyone knew of any libido enhancing suppliments that would make me hornier or possibly cum faster, more often.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.
I thought I had the same problem till I found out that I was just gettinh bord with me gf. it would take me at least 2 hrs or until I just gave up and went to sleep. it was really disapointing for me then it was wonderful for her she will cum several times. so I started to tell her to do different sexual things for example she would play with my balls while deep throat my cock and wow that was a great help. also I thing u might need to tell ur partner to spice things up..there is light at the otherend of the tunnel