thingsteal: The mizzus and I have been together for 15 years. She wasn't very experienced when I met her, whereas I'd done 3-somes, had gfs who ejaculated, deep throated, and did anal. I had a fairly enlightened view of sex, but it took a while for her to warm up to the idea of me performing oral sex on her. After the first orgasm her view changed considerably. Lately we've just been insane. Total fuck bunnies. In the past few months she's finally opened up the idea of performing oral sex on me as a break in the middle of intercourse. I did this once to her and she was totally turned on by it, so she reciprocated. For years she hated her "smell", but now it's no big deal. She's also really turned on by having me fuck her from behind. I've been slowly working on her ass in the past few weeks. If she's on top and we're doing it I like to get my fingers in her juices and move them all over the place. I've intentionally "brushed" her anus a few times with my fingers. Initially there was a "you're not going there" attitude, but the other night there was a total willingness to let me explore. I was able to massage it gently and inserted part of a tip of my finger for a while - actually it was up to the point when she experienced orgasm. I've always wanted to take her ass virginity and open another window for her to experience sexually. I'm well aware that you need a lot of lube, have to go slow, that it has to be a mutual thing, and that she has to be in control. She's mentioned it a couple times in sexual talk ("I know you want to fuck my ass") but I haven't been given the green light yet. I figure she might be up for it, providing she has a few too many drinks first, but I'm pretty certain the size of my dick is a factor in her decision to let me get in her ass. I know that I don't have to put the whole thing in - just 3 or 4 inches in order to get enough sensation to cum. Is there anybody else out who's "above average" in size who has convinced their wife/girlfriend to do it anally? How long did it take for you to get in there? Do you still do it? Does she like it? Thanks for your replies.