ok, i have recently started seeing this amazing girl, and we both have very strong feelings for each other and our relationship is incredibly intense. she is a virgin because she wanted to save herself for marriage, and i am the first guy she has been intimate with, but i seem to have awoken a really high sex drive in her, she is kind of insatiable and has become really sexy... i have held back from penetrating on a number of occasions, including last night at a friends house, because i don't want her to bleed everywhere and i want to have complete control of the situation to make it perfect for her. obviously i have had a lot more sexual experience, however i have never been with a virgin, but she really trusts me she is very tight and although i am not huge she is really nervous about my size. i know that this is the right thing for us to do, both emotionally and physically, but i want to make it as enjoyable and memorable as possible for her. basically should i accept that it is going to hurt her and might not be the most romantic thing in the world, or can i make it amazing for both of us? i know lube and foreplay go a long way but i don't want to break her so she regrets doing it. what should i do?