Hi Sorry if this topic has been covered already, but I'm a new member to this site. I've never been able to relax enough to allow a guy to fuck me. I've enjoyed topping a guy many times and know that from the guys' reaction that it must feel absolutely wonderful to be bottomed. However, on the few occasions I've tried to take a guy in the past, although I have been really turned on and 'desperate' to feel him inside me, I've never been able to take more than an inch or so. I'm told that the first time is extremely painful and what with that and the fact that it did feel like, if I can be crude, taking a dump, maybe this is psychologically stopping me from enjoying another aspect of gay sex. I've just met the most wonderful man and we have just started seeing each other. He is extremely large and much larger than any guy I've ever dated before. I want to feel him inside me and just don't know how I can 'train' for the want of a better word, my butt to take him. Any advice, or direction to websites would be extremely helpful. Thanks in advance.