taking it up the butt. not necessarily gay?

[showstoppa]

some people would say that the epitome of being homosexual is takin a dick up the butt
but i think it's a little more complicated than that
if you look at just the act of one guy being fucked by a penis you can say its homosexual
but i hear that anal sex for guys can be an amazing and an entirely different experience from anything else
and that's something that girls can't really offer
so can you call yourself gay for being curious or wanting to know what it feels like?
what do you think?

 

[crescendo69]

The word these days is usually bi-curious.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

so can you call yourself gay for being curious or wanting to know what it feels like?
what do you think?

Some here will say that it means you are 100% gay but probably not, even if you liked it. Being gay is more of a state of mind than what you do sexually and with whom you have sex.

 

[red7.5]

I think 15shooter summed it up quite well. Homosexual acts do not make one gay.

 

[Corius]

Friend, "taking it up the butt" is something that usually comes a good way into a meaningful relationship with a partner. Some agree with me that it is the ultimate in sexual intimacy between two loving men. I wouldn't be too concerned about the labels. Perhaps you will be fortunate and discover that you can have and sustain a loving sexual relationship with a man and that you are also able to have a similar loving sexual relationship with a woman at a different time. Note the key is the relationship. Sex which comes about as a confirmation of the bond of frienship and love between partners is the greatest.

 

[CUBE]

It is a sexual position. Anyone can use it

 

[Bbucko]

I'm pretty unambiguously gay and I hate being penetrated. There's much much more to being gay than receptive anal sex.

 

[arthurdent]

Lots of guys like to be taken up the Khyber Pass by their woman wearing a strap-on dildo and there are many websites devoted to this. Does that make them gay?

 

[sexplease]

it's called pegging.

 

[deleted300444]

getting nailed in the ass is not about being gay or being labled a certain sexuality. It is about the pleasure that one may derive (is that spelled right?) ...the pleasure that one may derive from being penetrated - and climaxing at the same time.

If you have a girl - have her tease your hole. Buy her a strap on to wear for you you. Go get a dildo for yourself. Do it with another dude and see if you like it.

 

[minkalover]

the thought of a erect penis in my ass sounds horribly uncomfortable but i do enjoy my gf putting her finger in there...make me cum really hard!

 

[Bbucko]

the thought of a erect penis in my ass sounds horribly uncomfortable but i do enjoy my gf putting her finger in there...make me cum really hard!

That's the first mile marker on the Hershey Highway, y'know :tongue:

 

[yorkshirebunny]

Lots of guys like to be taken up the Khyber Pass by their woman wearing a strap-on dildo and there are many websites devoted to this. Does that make them gay?

yep, every guy I know wants me to use my strap-on on them once I tell them about it

 

[Mark_UK]

some people would say that the epitome of being homosexual is takin a dick up the butt
but i think it's a little more complicated than that
if you look at just the act of one guy being fucked by a penis you can say its homosexual
but i hear that anal sex for guys can be an amazing and an entirely different experience from anything else
and that's something that girls can't really offer
so can you call yourself gay for being curious or wanting to know what it feels like?
what do you think?

Not gay for wanting to try it, but then again you wouldnt run round telling your friends about it in case they thought you were gay, its an odd world really

 

[karldergrosse]

For once and for all, let's give that old chestnut that anal sex equals homosexuality the permanent burial that it deserves. Does enjoying anal stimulation make a man gay? If so, does jacking oneself off make a man gay?...after all, it's sex to orgasm with a penis in hand. The answer to both questions is, quite obviously, a resounding NO. The anus has one of the highest concentrations of nerves in the body, and is a penetrable orifice to boot. That pretty much makes it what might be called an accessory sex organ--one that gives pleasurable sensations to a large number of men, straight or gay. Conversely, there are many men, straight and gay, who do not enjoy it (and, doubtless, many straight men who are afraid to learn whether they would enjoy it because of its false association with homsexuality). Anal sex is just one more possible source of sexual pleasure, and has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Period.

 

[chadstallion]

I think 15shooter summed it up quite well. Homosexual acts do not make one gay.

true. i found a guy on a str8 swingers site; offered him $$ to blow him while he watched porn. He agreed. Next month, last few days of the pay period; I get a call from him, asking if he could have more money and what he would do for the add'l amount. I agreed. As long as he can see str8 pussy on the TV he can doesnt mind being blown or fucking. Scared shitless the first time he was in my house (he's builit like a pro footballer which was the attraction I found in him). Not gay, but $$ is a great motivator.

 

[bigman420]

No, that's pretty much as gay as it gets

 

[joeweekend]

Gay means you want to live your life with another guy - a guy you are fucking.

What this guy's up to, that's just sex. (OK, if he's taking it up the ass, it's not JUST sex. It's SEX!)

So, does he love the guy? Or is he getting his rocks off . . . .

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

some people would say that the epitome of being homosexual is takin a dick up the butt
but i think it's a little more complicated than that
if you look at just the act of one guy being fucked by a penis you can say its homosexual
but i hear that anal sex for guys can be an amazing and an entirely different experience from anything else
and that's something that girls can't really offer
so can you call yourself gay for being curious or wanting to know what it feels like?
what do you think?

You can be curious at the fact you want to know how it feel, but if you are going to take a dick in the ass, well that is a gay-act...
But if you like anal play, that isn't gay at all, that is a way to give yourself pleasure and new experiences. All men has prostates, so a prostate isn't intended for gay people only. We could enjoy it too. But we don't use dicks to give us that feeling. Using toys isn't wrong, although others would say that is gay too because many toys are look-a-like-penises and some see that as gay too, but we can't help that a phalluslooking toy gives pleasure too. that doesn't mean you want a dick inside.

If you want a dick in your ass, well that is a gay-act, but if that is all and you aren't emotionally involved with the man, you can see it as bisexual.

good luck.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

You can be curious at the fact you want to know how it feel, but if you are going to take a dick in the ass, well that is a gay-act...

If you want a dick in your ass, well that is a gay-act, but if that is all and you aren't emotionally involved with the man, you can see it as bisexual.

good luck.

I typically agree with you on many things but you are all wet on this one. Using your logic, every woman who liked to get fucked in the ass is bisexual. It simply is not true.

Maybe in the pre-70's-'80's days there were more "defined" stereotypes and labels but not anymore. Since the world has grown from a "sex for procreation" to a "sex for pleasure" paridigm anal sex is simply another pleasure that more and more people, women and men, are willing to experience in order to heighten their pleasure.

I seldom allow anal penetration due to it is a trust issue with me but I would much rather have a warm, pulsing and ultimately, shooting cock with a man attached, heightening all my nerve endings than a piece of plastic, rubber or whatever they are made of, more than likely missing all the sweet spots.

Women like anal sex because of the nerve concentration and men like it because of the nerve concentration and for the prostate stimulation that allows them to experience 1) a totally different-feeling orgasm, 2) a stronger, fuller orgasm and 3) a new mind-blowing ejaculatory experience.

No, it is not as quick and easy as a penis only experience (whether oral, vaginal or JO), but it *is* a new experience and men and women who are willing to experiment in order to increase their pleasure will get beyond any pre-concieved notions, sexuality insecurities and any stereotypical old time boundaries.

Whether or not you are gay or straight has to do with who you *love* not what type of sex you have.