taking to long to cum.

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  1. D_N Flay Table

    D_N Flay Table New Member

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    Instead of cumming to fast. It takes me at least 45 minutes to cum. This has been a constant in my life. And sometimes I can't and have to finish myself off. Anyone else have this problem?
     
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    Shouldn't you embrace this problem? I mean it could be the other way around. At least this way you have no excuse, or perhaps just one less excuse, for not being able to please your partner. :smile:
     
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    Not qite 45 minutes, but too long none the less. Seems to be the worst when I'm with someone that I really like.
     
  4. D_N Flay Table

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    Girls get sore.
     
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    Buy a fleshlight then.
     
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    I too last a while. It usually ends up the same way.First time of the night,40 -45 mins,then 2nd,I go on for over and hour,and can only cum if I use my hand on it.

    Its good,cuz women do seem to like it,but once you get past their idea of long lasting then its a chore for them..and they get sore or like one gf ,get a sore ego, cuz you didnt cum in 10 minutes like their last bf did and somehow it becomes a matter of her not feeling like shes hot enough for you.

    So for me its been a matter of " damned if you do, damned if you dont " lol.

    But Id rather last too long than be a 2 pump chump,lol
     
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    I have that problem, too. Not having a lot of partners in my younger years I spent a lot of time "preparing" by edging, stop and go method etc. when jerkin off. Now I regret it haha
     
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    Well lucky you, I should embrace that because you never know when impotence might strike especially if you are a dirty filthy smoker.

    if the women are getting sore, then either get them more stimulated so they naturally lubricate or use a good water based lube - which you should be doing anyway to protect the condom from damage that is on your cock that is protecting you from STI's or HIV.
     
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    same problem here. I think it happens because when i masturbate its usually for a couple hours and its usually a couple times a week.
     
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    I have been on both sides of this issue and, from my perspective at least, I will take a marathon man over a minute man anyday. If it comes down to it I will finish you off with my hands or mouth, but if you stop too soon then its just no fun.
     
  11. D_N Flay Table

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    AH, you are amazing.
     
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    I'm like that too and it can be a bit annoying at times when you want to cum fast for time constraint reasons. A typical session for us can last anywhere from 1 hour to 4 hours before I cum. She's never complained though!
     
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    Got the same problem and and i h8 it iv never been with some1 with the energy to go the xtra mile and get me off i always end up finishing myself off.
    my 1st time lasted 4 hrs.
     
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    after a long day have had my wrist get sore before I can cum....am also discovering the 'porn problem' sometimes easier to get off alone w/porn that in a 1:1 situation
     
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    Or maybe his partner doesnt satisfy him hence how long it takes him to cum :)
     
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    have the same prob takes 30-40 mins fuck its exhausting. is there something that can sensitize the cock head to help. the wetter she gets the longer it takes. any help would be good. as for the guy pumping someone for 4 hours do you take energy drinks and a meal at the same time. hmmmmmmmm
     
  17. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    Same here. She was amazed! :tongue:


    Not sure if you're referring to me or itsthepopei, but I've never drank energy drinks or anything like that. Before when I would go that long, it was because of the medication I was on. It would make it incredibly hard to focus on sex, so I would go and go and go and really have to concentrate hard to cum. I've been off the meds for over a year now, and the norm is still about an hour for me, although when me and my partner met again (long distance relationship) last month, our first time lasted four hours again. My problem is not lack of focus, but overthinking. I seem to have a problem just letting go of my thoughts and just enjoying the moment.

    I don't think I could have a conventional quickie to save my life!
     
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    Are any of you single and want to date?!?! Guys can't last long with me at ALL! It's a curse of being tight and having a "magical pussy" as it's been called lol. I would love a guy who can last. It takes a while to wear me out...and I swear I feel like crying when it happens over and over and over again when they blow their load in like 2 minutes or less.
     
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    You got a pretty tight cut buddy. Me too - mid-thirties became almost anorgasmic. When you almost can't do it yourself - rub yourself raw trying - you know something is wrong.

    Sometimes it still takes too long, but since restoring it feels a lot better when I cum. For me, restoration really was not optional - if I was going to continue to have a sex life.
     
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