The three dudes I'm seeing have this in common. They look me in the eye, and they seem like they are just seeing me for the first time, and tell me I'm beautiful. The combination of the wonder on their faces and the sweet, genuine compliment makes me feel good, and turns me on more.
One of them prattles on about how excited and hard he is. Actually, count me in on that too, as well as the other two. We all just talk about being really turned on, and how good it feels. They have been trained to talk to me about wanting to come, and where they want to put it. For a lot of it we are too busy kissing to talk.