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I honestly thought there would be SOME response....obviously I’m asking about popular pornstars who have a gift for gab.... maybe the silent treatment is my best bet????
 
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I'm not sure what kind of response you're expecting. Many of the regulars here report that they don't watch porn, don't watch much porn, or only watch amateur porn.

Personally, I tend not to enjoy watching porn with dirty talk because much of what I see ends up sounding degrading.
 

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Oh, you're referring to porn dialogue? I was going to say it was a battle between my husband and I. We both talk during sex, and we even tell jokes. I'm dead serious about the joking part. My best line: "The... ugh... ceiling ... ugh... fan... ugh... really... ugh... needs... ugh... cleaninnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng!"
 

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I watch porn sometimes, and the porn I prefer doesn't have dialogue. Or has very little. I'm generally only watching it for 5 minutes anyways

Now as to whether I like dirty talk with a partner -- that depends. On the person, they have to be brainy about it and we have to have a deep connection. I've only known one person to be good at it my whole life.
 
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"Porn Talk" is a vaginal desiccant.

If you are relying on porn as a How to guide then you DON'T have "game".
You have a tube sock and a bottle of lotion.
Ditto. ‘Porn talk’ is loosely scripted by dudes, for dudes - it’s not designed for female enjoyment. Maybe the porn produced for and by women is different, I don’t know. I don’t watch any of it.

Besides, haven’t you heard? Porn isn’t real life? There is virtually nothing in porn that is going to help you with real world sex. Not the positions, not the sights, and not the sounds. It’ll get you off.
 
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This is a before sex thing for me. The hubby and I either text naughty messages throughout the day or if we’re in the kitchen making dinner together we’ll whisper all the naughty things we want to do to each other. This gets me all hot because I know he will deliver. During sex, we are so focused on pleasuring each other. We’re not doing a lot of talking, just a lot of moaning and cumming ;)
 

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The three dudes I'm seeing have this in common. They look me in the eye, and they seem like they are just seeing me for the first time, and tell me I'm beautiful. The combination of the wonder on their faces and the sweet, genuine compliment makes me feel good, and turns me on more.

One of them prattles on about how excited and hard he is. Actually, count me in on that too, as well as the other two. We all just talk about being really turned on, and how good it feels. They have been trained to talk to me about wanting to come, and where they want to put it. For a lot of it we are too busy kissing to talk.