Talking dirty during sex

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  1. hardstud

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    I have been with two different types of women with regard to talking dirty during sex: the kind that loves it, that says "oh god yes, fuck the shit outta me. I want that huge cock to flood me with cum" and the type that moans and doesn't say anything.

    Which type are you ladies? And guys, do you like to talk dirty during sex?
     
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    i like to talk dirty only if she likes it. if she does not like dirty talking then i will try and limit what i say and how i say it
     
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    I talk, moan and groan. However, besides, the word fuck, I rarely use profanity.

    My lover loves it.... :p
     
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    My ex used to talk dirty during sex.

    "Did you remember to take out the garbage?"
     
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    i never "talk dirty" during sex, it’s not instinctual (enough for me, anyway) and seems very, excuse the term, corny. honestly, i can only take but so much of someone saying, “let all the cum from you big dick flood my keyhole vagina” before it becomes counterproductive (a turnoff). call me a conservative, but 'sex talk' just doesn't .... float my boat. :mad:
     
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    So I guess you won't be stabbing me with your engorged man-meat?

    Ha, I love it, but like others have said, only if my partner is into it.
     
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    And only if it's sincere. Now, if it sounds like you've memorized a porno, forget it.
     
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    Yes, but I am not very creative with my language, nor do I even think about what I'm saying most of the time. I just kind of let myself go during sexual play and see what happens.
     
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    oh no dear! you are the exception! i will salaciously slide my thick snake-like sex organ into your slender, slippery, sexy vaginal orifice. :cool:
     
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    especially if you start calling me ron jeremy (he's a porn star, for those who don't know).
     
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    Helio, trust me, when the times comes I doubt either of you will be thinking about your "to do" list!

    I agree with dlcs on the issue of sincerity too. I like it when we're talking about what feels good, what we want, the language isn't very important. If he starts ripping off some silly porno-produced lines I can't get into it at all.

    *GoneA you are the exception. You can shove your throbbing manhood into my slick, aching tunnel of love anytime.*
     
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    Not exactly the type for the porn-script kind of talking here, but I like gripping a man's shoulders/arms really hard, look him right in the eye, and everytime he goes in, saying "Fuck me". Do that over and over again, and it'll drive HIM , uhm, what's beyond nuts?
    Apart from that, I'm a moaner and groaner, too, and some words too. If you're around piloting business, grip him when he's hard, look at him and say that you have control now, and so many more of that kind. Sometimes things that aren't of an apparent sexual nature can become pretty hot when they're mentioned in the bedroom - it's not ideally suited for one-night stands, but when you know each other some more, it's great. Intimacy, and such stuff.

    By the way, a sexy compliment never misses its effect with me, as long as it's not too cheesy (no sleazy romantic movie/porno lines, please).
     
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    Same here. Usually, the talking works out. Occasionally though, I sound like an elderly man with alzheimer's, who has no clue what's happening around him.
     
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    I rarely speak coherent sentences while engaged in sex, even when my mouth isn't full. When I do say something, it's not "I'm going to slide my big, meaty shaft in and out of your hungry hole until I whitewash your bowels with my steamy jism." That just doesn't do it for me.
     
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    I don't know about the rest of you, but after reading this I had to take a bathroom break to go jack off.
     
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    I'm not much of a talker during sex. I had this one girlfriend that loved to talk dirty. She went a little too far with it. There is a fine line with me and talking dirty. She definitly crossed it...major turn off.
     
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    good one ... i may get into the habit of talking dirty after all.
     
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    Me TOO Spladle... that was actually kinda hot DMW! I am most definitely the very vocal type. I love it when a partner is as well - Claire's example would make a minute man out of me!! I love it more than anything when the person I'm with let's me know they're feeling it. And I definitely like to ask a lot of questions... "does it feel good inside you?" <evil horny grin>
     
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    Oh, don't get me wtong: I'm so vocal that I'm pretty sure my neighbours hear me. It's just that my vocalisations are pretty much restricted the groans and a few disjointed expletive phrases rather than a running narrative of the action. My sex talk in bed sounds something like, "Oh, yeah ... uhn ... fuck ... ah, ah, oh ... so fuckin' sweet ... ooh, ah," rather than, "I want to feel your tight, pink pucker grasp my thick, hard, throbbing meat-monster and caress it 'til I unleash my pearly, white load deep in your tender guts."
     
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    It depends on the situation, I guess. The first time a guy talked dirty to me, it blew my mind. The thing is, it wasn't cheesy, unrealistic stuff, but just assertive, verbalizaton.

    "Ride my fucking cock"

    or

    "I'm going to fuck you so hard you won't be able to walk for a week."

    "You like that hard cock in you? You want it harder? Do you?"

    Stuff like that, yes.

    I moan a lot, groan, whimper... but I will throw in the occasional verbage. It's not something I actively think about, it just happens.

    "Oh God, fuck me, yes..."
    "your cock feels so good, please don't stop" (begging little whimper)

    etc and so on.
     
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