Talking dirty during sex

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most definitely... seems to be part of the whole thing... love being told how good I am... love to talk dirty... want to let her know she is doing good and driving me crazy which sex does...
 

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hardstud said:
I have been with two different types of women with regard to talking dirty during sex: the kind that loves it, that says "oh god yes, fuck the shit outta me. I want that huge cock to flood me with cum" and the type that moans and doesn't say anything.

Which type are you ladies? And guys, do you like to talk dirty during sex?

I can be both for sure ...used to be much more the later but depends of the degree of ecstasy and etc...still have soooo much to explore...yumi nice!!!

Ohhhh...the vocabulary of passionate dont hold nada sex....:heart: :hug: :jumping38:
 
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I love dirty talk. My husband isn't comfortable with it like I am. He says stupid things like "dirt, clay, mud" it isn't a turn on. I like a little profanity but I like talking about how it feels, smells, tastes, how and what he and I like. I think that is more exciting than the boring quiet moans with no interaction.
 

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rawbone8 said:
verbal foreplay can begin long before especially when we can't get to business right away ( waiter... check please! )

whispered challenges, teasing and filthy endearments are a great form of foreplay and that is the only time for any eloquence

but during the main event it's pretty much primal communication

my sentiments exactly. nicely stated.

when it works talking dirty really turns me on in all the ways you describe. exchanging cock worship expletives while i'm pounding my way to the finish line will always sends me over the edge...
 

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My already limited english vocabulary is getting very boring in the best heat of the moment situation..only 2 things cross my blank mind to say: Fuck me or you fucker fuck me...and repeat those as parrot :rolleyes:

Wish to have more things to say filled in my blank mind during hot situation.
 

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i really like respectable dirty talk when having sex. but my wife's not in to any dirty talk at all. the idea of me moaning the word "fuck" while we're getting after it is a huge turn-off to her (and nearly a slap in the face for me).

I agree with an earlier comment that women need to know what turns a man on in every way... talk during sex included.
 

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My boyfriend will usually be in the moment riding me and asks in my ear "Is it delicious?" Other times he says stuff like "You like it." He says it so sweetly but he sure knows what he is doing.

And I respond "Ooohh yea, it's good....I love it. ...It's all yours baby."
 

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i never "talk dirty" during sex, it’s not instinctual (enough for me, anyway) and seems very, excuse the term, corny. honestly, i can only take but so much of someone saying, “let all the cum from you big dick flood my keyhole vagina” before it becomes counterproductive (a turnoff). call me a conservative, but 'sex talk' just doesn't .... float my boat. :mad:

I made this post 2 years ago; I recant this statement. I'm quite into it, as it turns out.
 

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I'm usually rather quiet - maybe occasionally slightly more volume but I don't get loud or scream. And I don't say anything unless I learn the guy finds talking a turn-on.
 

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I wouldn't say I like really filthy disrespectful talk- :rolleyes: but I get really hot telling the guy how he feels inside me, and I get hotter still when he moans how tight I am and how he wants to blow his load cos he's so hot he can barely hold back-:tongue: then some sexy whispering about anything we are doing will definitely take me over the top, so yes, I like to hear and say erotic sexual things. That is, until I reach the moment i can't talk at all, and he encourages me to "do it" so he can feel .... oh blah blah blah not gonna say it all here! By that point my words are completely unnecessary, my body is saying everything.:biggrin1:
 

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I've always loved dirty talk, but alas, I've rarely met anybody into it as much as I am. Also, one has to take it easy with partners so as to NOT scare them away! Some of the hottest, action-oriented men I've met are so amazingly shy verbally.....:confused: Must have something to do with deeply ingrained concepts dealing with being a 'good' boy or girl.
 

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ha i think it is kinda hot but i always start laughing... i just can't take it seriously. i feel like i'm trying to emulate a bad porno or something. something like 'can i fuck you?' is okay, but further than that, it's kinda comical. i cannot imagine myself saying something like that and hearing it come out of my mouth just seems not natural.