Talking dirty:)

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  1. F_Man

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    This friend of a friend, a guy just over 25, picks up a kitten at a bar and they go to his place to get comfortable. He's about to enter when the girl starts to beg: "...talk dirty to me!" :wink:

    The guy starts cursing to her, really dirty, "You fat pig, you miserable piece of lard!..." :biggrin1::redface::tongue:

    She immediately gets up, puts on her clothes and leaves. The guy's left alone, confused and all loaded up :confused:

    I love when talk is part of the rub & climax, but perhaps on another level than the above. Howabout you?
     
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    I like dirty talk and role play. That example you shared, F Man, seems to lend more towards humiliation (which, to me is a specific kind of talk which should be discussed beforehand).
     
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    Lex, I think the guy was inexperienced, didn't quite know, and thought he might be doing the asked-for job:)
     
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    I love dirty dominant talk. I remember one bi-guy started out saying "Good boy" to me and then ended up saying "Good girl". I wouldn't mind being called a faggot, bitch or slut as long as its in the bedroom.
     
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    I search for verbal on gay porn sites but don't find nearly enough. For me, it's so arousing to hear a dominant asshole having his way with a submissive. Even better if he speaks to the camera as if he's talking to me. NastiBear on X-tube does a good job of this. Wish more were like him.
     
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    u never call a girl fat, thats not talking dirty
     
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    LOL! I guess he wont try that again. But then she probably should have led by example. It is stimulating, is it not?
     
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    Talking dirty is like any other form of expression and verbal communication: it is an art and has to be sincere. By just rolling off a litany of dirty words like a trucker or midwestern college student it has to have context and meaning. Dirty words are so gratuitously common in Hollywood tv and movies that the words have lost their gogency and power.
     
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    It can be so fucking sexy listening to a dominant top that intersperses a bit of rough with a bit of loving passion
     
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    The guy should rent some old Jeff Stryker porn. The man could talk a blue sexy streak.
     
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    You've got to feel a girl out on dirty talk. Start easy, test her reaction, work you're way up.

    For instance, "FUck baby, you're wet. Only dirty girls get this fucking wet. You a dirty girl."

    And complimentary dirty talk is always good "Damn baby you look so fucking gorgeous with my big cock in your mouth."

    Or commands "Lemme see you squeeze your sweets tits if you want this big cock inside you."

    Even with name calling you've got to test the waters first. Like start with "Are you going to act like a good slut for me?" That way you're not calling her names, just asking if she's going to ACT like one. If she says "I'm your slut." then you've got permission to go on.

    Starting by calling her fat and using the word lard is just stupid.
     
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    My first wife swears something terrible, but will she say "fuck me", no way. Another wife loved to talk dirty, either while fucking or just getting warmed up. At the right time it is great.
     
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