talking to your husband/boyfriend/partner

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  1. brunozerli

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    Hi, do you talk to your husband/boyfriend/partner about other men size?

    I mean about boys you have seen or spotted, naked or dressed, colleagues, friends, relatives, shop clerks...even if you just speculate about other men endowment

    And what's the reaction of your man? can you notice excitement or disappointment
     
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    My boyfriend is very sensitive about his size. We have never discussed other guys size, and he is reluctant to discuss his size wheather or not the issues we experience have been a problem with other partners.
     
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    Here, come closer, I'm gonna whisper a little secret in your ear...that's it...closer...


    ALL THE MAN I'VE EVER DATED HAVE GONE OUT OF THEIR WAY TO ASK ABOUT PREVIOUS LOVER'S PENIS SIZE!!!

    sorry...you didn't deserve that rudeness...I just find this such an odd quirk with men. They all ask, and all seem unaware that they all ask...thinking they're somehow uniquely interested.
     
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    That is whack. I mean I don't ask. If they volunteer, nothing I can do about it. The wife has been the funniest to date though...

    "(Ex's name withheld primarily because he's an idiot) was bigger than you, but the sex was crap because he didn't know how to use it."

    That was the first time I had been told I was smaller than someone and actually felt honred to be that. :rolleyes:
     
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    I don't ask girls about the size of their previous lovers. I have to assume that any girl who has graduated from college has seen around 10 dicks in her life. They are either bigger than me or they weren't, and I couldn't care less. As for a girl bringing it up? That's fine. However:

    "I mean about boys you have seen or spotted, naked or dressed, colleagues, friends, relatives, shop clerks...even if you just speculate about other men endowment"


    Someone who is this in to size would bother me. I don't feel the need to mention every great ass or bust that passes me by during the day.
     
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    Maybe men do this to be competitive? (we have to be bigger and better than any lover you've ever had.)
     
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    I'm with BigDuder, I've never asked my girlfriend about anyone's elses size. I know that she has had four previous boyfriends before me, but I've never even brought the subject up. Don't ask, dont tell lol;)
     
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    When we were first together my wife mentioned that she liked the way her ex-husbands ball sack bounced against her perineum, my sack didn't hang low enough to provide her the same stimulation which surprised her.

    When she had an affair I asked her if it was because the guy had a bigger penis, no, and actually since my girth hurts her that may have played a part.
     
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    Hi a few comments:

    I have had women volunteer size information, such as, "you are the biggest i've ever sucked", or "ouch , your too big", or " i think you are the biggest i've had".

    But I have also asked about it with a few partners. This is usually with long term relationships, where we have talked about everything and share all of our pasts sexual and nonsexual. And to be honest, if I think there is a future to the relationship I do hope I am the biggest.

    Finally, I have had people talk about encoutners not relating to lovers. Like this one guy my girl went to high school with was too big to stay in his basketball shorts and when he ran it came out the bottom - so they made him wear biker shorts underneath to hold it in. Her friend had sex with this huge bodybuilder guy and when he put it in, she was like is that it -- it was tiny. She told me she used to make fun of her ex because he was small. Also, she worked at a hospital and came home one day and told me she saw the smallest penis ever, pretty funny.
     
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    in all the relationships i was involved in except one.the ex's told me without even asking.i'm one for open conversation on any topic so it doesn't effect me at all.it's a turn on to hear women talking freely about sexual things.
    my current gf and her friends talk about strippers and porno guys dicks all the time...
     
  12. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I try to avoid this subject. I've had a few guys ask about my exes, and I never think it's a good idea. I usually just play it off that I don't kiss and tell or something. I know that they don't REALLY want to know.
     
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    i think you nail it.. the idea is to avoid someone who has succh a fetish, unsless you enjoy that!!
     
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    Agreed. Duder nailed it again. The guy is wise and straight forward. I think it's kind of rude to be that obsessed. I mean if you have the girl, what the hell does it matter how her ex measured up?

    If you are smaller, obviously you got more going for you than the last chump. And if you are larger? I don't think you need to figure that one out. :biggrin1:

    Like duder said, if you are that size obsessed, there is a huge problem. Even the professed size queens aren't that crass.
     
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    I have never had a lover ask me about the size of a past lover.
     
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