Tall guys who don't like tall guys

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  1. dj4143

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    so i'm a bottom guy... kind of small and cute and cuddly, and i'm really turned on by big tall strong guys who DON"T like other big guys. in fact, pretty much every guy i've ever dated if i say "oh that football quarterback is so hot" he'll say "ewww gross"

    for me there is just nothing sexier than seeing a big strong guy and a cute little guy together... so obvious who is the top and the bottom, and such a natural chemistry. almost like a man and a woman except two guys. maybe some call it big bro/little bro.

    does anyone else out there into this scene? i feel like those big strong total top guys tend to be closeted in general.. but i don't knwo maybe i'm wrong :)
     
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    Im more of a big bro/big bro kinda guy
     
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    From one lil bro to another, I can totally relate and into this scene, but where I'm located Big bros are pretty scarce.
     
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    Most guys I've been with have been similar height and build to me. (6'1", 180 lbs)
     
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    I'm 6'3" and have a football build and my boyfriend is 5'6" and is pretty petite, so I guess we qualify for the big/small relationship thing. Everyone I've ever dated has been shorter than me, but that's mainly a function of the fact there are almost no gay men taller than me... all gay men seem so damned tiny! It's true most gay relationships tend to have male and female roles. I'm definitely the male... I love cars, working with my hands, don't really care what I wear or what people think of me, I hold the doors open, etc; and my bf loves domestic stuff like cooking, is more in tune with fashion, he tears up during every damned TV show and movie, he tends to take care of the practical things in life (shopping for toilet paper, doing the dishes, stuff like that), et al.

    As far as me not liking other tall guys, that's not the case at all. In fact, when someone walks by me who is significantly taller, I find it intensely erotic. I don't date princesses, either. I'm gay because I'm sexually attracted to men.
     
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    This is definitely my scene as well. I really like a bottom guy that is significantly smaller in build and shorter than me in physical size and stature. Unfortunately, I'm not all that tall at 5'10" (177.8 cm for you metric kids out there). But I do have a stocky, solid football player build.

    Unfortunately, I seem to have a lot of trouble finding the little bro type of guys that I am the most attracted to.
     
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    louielouie that's so cute about your and your bf... you guys must look adorable when you go out on dates together, and i love how you open doors for him

    whenever i go on dates with guys one thing that is funny is that we are both always "masc"... i mean i don't always expect waiters or waitresses to know that we are on a date, but they ALWAYS put the check in front of the top (aka the big guy) at the end. never in the middle of the table its so weird, but i find it kind of sexy at the same time. i think in some ways society just wants the 6'3 football player types to be men, and then the cute boys with pretty faces and small builds, we want them to be the bottoms. you can even see that in the porn industry. there's a few "total tops" and "total bottoms" out there where size/musculature is very important.

    MY BROTHERS HOT FRIEND:BARRETT LONG KURT WILD -Gay Tube Movie

    kurt wild, jeremy jordan, and brent corrigan are three guys who tend to be in porns that exalt the tall strong guy as the "man" and the pretty boy as the "girl" - it's kind of the football player dates cheerleader bucket that everyone seems to push in the straight community, but just with two guys

    i'm gonna try to find some pics or videos of this type of thing, but would love to see any one else's favorite pics or videos as well.
     
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    Pretty tall here, 6'3", currently 200lbs, top and I do prefer shorter guys, especially short muscled guys with bubble butts. Hmmmmmm. :p
     
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    So true. Even though I'm younger, I always get the check placed in front of me LOL. Nobody ever asks us if we'd prefer separate checks, either. :tongue: Even my Mom talks about knowing I'm "the man" haha.
     
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    I'm a small guy and I do like tall men! ;) I like the fact that there's a height difference. In a relationship (or just in a sexual encounter) I like to be the 'boy' while the other guy is the 'man'!! :)
     
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    I'd like the men to be taller...but for some odd reason the gay/bi men in my city (which has about 1.2 million people including metropolis) are all small...like 5'7 -5'3, lol. But I'm not so tall myself; 5'10.
     
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    I'm 6'2 and a bottom...I like tall guys, but they're hard to find taller then me (extremely)...i'll settle for ~5'10 or so, but going lower then that is a turn off.
     
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    Like em tall, like em short. 6'6'' here.....one of the hottest times I ever had was in Amsterdam where I had many a man as tall and taller than me. But now and again....I do like a little fella to toss around in bed....mmmmmmm
     
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    5'2 here. And in my experience, I've noticed myself getting a lot of attention from taller guys. Most guys are taller by default, but I'm talking about the ones above 6' so I guess its all relative.
     
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    true to me as well i'm 5'8' and my boyfriend is 6'3' i seem to prefer taller men and he likes shorter men lol.
     
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    I know what u mean petetown. Living in Holland and being short for a Dutch guy (5'5) it's increadible how tall the guys get over here. And yeah i like that!
     
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    I'm 5'9" and all 3 of my boyfriends have been taller than 6'3"... However, i tend to disagree as to how easy it is to assume which of the two is the top and bottom... I gotta say, everyone assumes since I'm the smaller guy i am the bottom, but nope. In each big bro & lil bro situation i've been in, I've been the top.
     
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    I am above average
    6' about 210#'s
    hairy I love bigger or taller guys
    I too prefer men as well
    I hate housework prefer to be outside when the weather is nice
    I do not mind getting dirty as long as it washes off
    lol
     
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    Why should I like a tall guys. one tall guy was so mean to me I that I never talk to him or look at him.

    I like having sex with tall women.
     
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    I'm 5'8 and my current squeeze is 6'6 and "built like a brick shit-house" - his words, not mine. And it's me that does the topping. :biggrin1:
     
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