*Based on true events*
This one is for the ladies. The first part starts off as a bit of a downer with a background story, but don't be discouraged - the second part has a great comeback and all parts there after will leave you with a story you won't ever forget.
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By 22, I had been through and seen it all. College in NYC had enlivened and jaded me just as equally. Mindlessly intoxicated one night stands with girls I met at parties and concerts were frequent, and - not to sound immodest, but - I was charming, handsome, funny, and smart enough to have almost any girl if I really worked at it. I turned into a bit of a wild child running free in a city of decadence. My newfound friends and connections landed me a part time job in the media industry, which allowed me to have all I could imagine in a short period of time. Everything from swanky penthouse loft coke parties with rockstars and celebrities to hotel room orgies and bar bathroom fuckfests with strangers. I had money, women, and just about everything else by then. But after a year or so, it still wasn't enough. Soon hardcore internet porn became a daily ritual, and drugs/alcohol/partying became a nightly one. Slowly, everything had become meaningless, empty, and without real feeling. I needed out of the life that had built up around me.
Then I met the girl who changed everything. A timeless beauty with the face of an angel, the warmth of the sun, the body of a healthy supermodel, the mind of a nobel laureate, and the patience of a saint. For the first time since I was a teenager, I felt the need to commit to someone. Determined to turn a new stone and leave my old life behind to dedicate my all to someone and something greater and more important, which was in this case, this beautiful young woman. And commit I did. We began dating in a whirlwind summer romance. Unfortunately, the romance slowly became everything but physical. My old lifestyle had left me so desensitized from all the porn, the drugs, the partying, and the orgies that I actually had trouble getting it up (and keeping it up) with an actual woman that I had real feelings for. Despite this, and all better reason, I fell head over heels in love. But that wasn't enough to make up for my sudden lack of sexual power. Maybe I was like that all along and never got a chance to know because I was so messed up and never kept any woman around long enough to find out. Regardless, all my charming ways couldn't save our relationship, and the beautiful girl that finally tamed me ended up disappointed in my lack of sensual/sexual energy. So despite her professions of profoundly deep love for me, she left after a few months. It was soul crushing, but ultimately, the best thing that ever happened to me.
After a month or so of wallowing, and trying to figure out what went wrong, I realized a real change was needed. The last time this happened was right before college, when I figured out that being the shy geeky loner artist type wasn't helping my social or sexual life. After the first year of college around new people in a place that let my previously ridiculed artistic/musical talents shine, I became confident for the first time in my life. Somehow that naturally metamorphed into this socially suave party boy thing. Now, we all know how that went. So after the painful breakup, I was determined to trim out the toxic elements out of my lifestyle and keep the good ones gained over the college years. I wanted to be sure that the next girl I dated wouldn't leave me for any sexual reasons.
First to go was the drugs/alcohol. A little weed every other weekend was alright, in fact, a way better high since I wasn't doing it everyday (wine too, since it's actually very healthy for you in moderation). Next to go was the porn. That was even harder to abstain from than all the partying. It took a few tries and many slips, but finally, after two or three weeks without either influence, I felt better and able to go on without them. What unexpectedly followed was no masturbation. Just didn't feel the need after about a month. Not only did it feel completely natural not to indulge in that, it actually allowed me to feel more alive than ever. Encouraged by a newfound sense of enjoyment and happiness, I began working out. I had always been naturally skinny, particularly in high school. Though I gained enough weight by college so as not to appear unhealthy against my lanky 6 foot 3 frame, but the slim physique was still there.
After a few months of hitting the gym, no late night partying, and abstaining from all forms of sex left me in the best shape of my life. Even my diet changed; more fruits, vegetables, and healthier carbs. I'd always done a little bit of half assed light Yoga, but was now going at it full force. 40 minutes a day, along with some meditation and reading books on Buddhism and awareness began having profound mental, spiritual, and physical benefits. And women around me really began to take notice....
Women always responded well when I flirted with them. But now it was different. Women were flirting with ME, not the other way around. Not only that, with all the yoga & meditation, I could literally feel the charges of sexual excitement pouring out of their bodies and covering me in it completely. It's a rush better than any drug or high I've ever experienced. Suddenly, I was able to connect and communicate without any words. So when I spoke and flirted right back, all the energy and excitement just built and built. But I never acted physically on it, no matter how many numbers and invitations for sex got thrown at him. Maybe I was still a bit heart broken and hesitant to have it happen again, not really sure. But ultimately, all that abstinence paid off. After realizing that eventually that day will come that I was going to take meet some beautiful stranger and want to take her home, I should be ready. And not ready to go like a fountain of premature ejaculation, but ready to fuck all night. So I started reading up on natural ways to control ejaculation. Kegeling seemed like the best option, so I started daily kegel excercises whenever I could (a few reps waiting for the train, a few semi hard reps in the shower, etc). After another few months of, for the first time in my life I felt like I could feel every single cell and sensation of my dick - and had complete control over it. It was perfect time, as I was about to have the best night of my life.....
This one is for the ladies. The first part starts off as a bit of a downer with a background story, but don't be discouraged - the second part has a great comeback and all parts there after will leave you with a story you won't ever forget.
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By 22, I had been through and seen it all. College in NYC had enlivened and jaded me just as equally. Mindlessly intoxicated one night stands with girls I met at parties and concerts were frequent, and - not to sound immodest, but - I was charming, handsome, funny, and smart enough to have almost any girl if I really worked at it. I turned into a bit of a wild child running free in a city of decadence. My newfound friends and connections landed me a part time job in the media industry, which allowed me to have all I could imagine in a short period of time. Everything from swanky penthouse loft coke parties with rockstars and celebrities to hotel room orgies and bar bathroom fuckfests with strangers. I had money, women, and just about everything else by then. But after a year or so, it still wasn't enough. Soon hardcore internet porn became a daily ritual, and drugs/alcohol/partying became a nightly one. Slowly, everything had become meaningless, empty, and without real feeling. I needed out of the life that had built up around me.
Then I met the girl who changed everything. A timeless beauty with the face of an angel, the warmth of the sun, the body of a healthy supermodel, the mind of a nobel laureate, and the patience of a saint. For the first time since I was a teenager, I felt the need to commit to someone. Determined to turn a new stone and leave my old life behind to dedicate my all to someone and something greater and more important, which was in this case, this beautiful young woman. And commit I did. We began dating in a whirlwind summer romance. Unfortunately, the romance slowly became everything but physical. My old lifestyle had left me so desensitized from all the porn, the drugs, the partying, and the orgies that I actually had trouble getting it up (and keeping it up) with an actual woman that I had real feelings for. Despite this, and all better reason, I fell head over heels in love. But that wasn't enough to make up for my sudden lack of sexual power. Maybe I was like that all along and never got a chance to know because I was so messed up and never kept any woman around long enough to find out. Regardless, all my charming ways couldn't save our relationship, and the beautiful girl that finally tamed me ended up disappointed in my lack of sensual/sexual energy. So despite her professions of profoundly deep love for me, she left after a few months. It was soul crushing, but ultimately, the best thing that ever happened to me.
After a month or so of wallowing, and trying to figure out what went wrong, I realized a real change was needed. The last time this happened was right before college, when I figured out that being the shy geeky loner artist type wasn't helping my social or sexual life. After the first year of college around new people in a place that let my previously ridiculed artistic/musical talents shine, I became confident for the first time in my life. Somehow that naturally metamorphed into this socially suave party boy thing. Now, we all know how that went. So after the painful breakup, I was determined to trim out the toxic elements out of my lifestyle and keep the good ones gained over the college years. I wanted to be sure that the next girl I dated wouldn't leave me for any sexual reasons.
First to go was the drugs/alcohol. A little weed every other weekend was alright, in fact, a way better high since I wasn't doing it everyday (wine too, since it's actually very healthy for you in moderation). Next to go was the porn. That was even harder to abstain from than all the partying. It took a few tries and many slips, but finally, after two or three weeks without either influence, I felt better and able to go on without them. What unexpectedly followed was no masturbation. Just didn't feel the need after about a month. Not only did it feel completely natural not to indulge in that, it actually allowed me to feel more alive than ever. Encouraged by a newfound sense of enjoyment and happiness, I began working out. I had always been naturally skinny, particularly in high school. Though I gained enough weight by college so as not to appear unhealthy against my lanky 6 foot 3 frame, but the slim physique was still there.
After a few months of hitting the gym, no late night partying, and abstaining from all forms of sex left me in the best shape of my life. Even my diet changed; more fruits, vegetables, and healthier carbs. I'd always done a little bit of half assed light Yoga, but was now going at it full force. 40 minutes a day, along with some meditation and reading books on Buddhism and awareness began having profound mental, spiritual, and physical benefits. And women around me really began to take notice....
Women always responded well when I flirted with them. But now it was different. Women were flirting with ME, not the other way around. Not only that, with all the yoga & meditation, I could literally feel the charges of sexual excitement pouring out of their bodies and covering me in it completely. It's a rush better than any drug or high I've ever experienced. Suddenly, I was able to connect and communicate without any words. So when I spoke and flirted right back, all the energy and excitement just built and built. But I never acted physically on it, no matter how many numbers and invitations for sex got thrown at him. Maybe I was still a bit heart broken and hesitant to have it happen again, not really sure. But ultimately, all that abstinence paid off. After realizing that eventually that day will come that I was going to take meet some beautiful stranger and want to take her home, I should be ready. And not ready to go like a fountain of premature ejaculation, but ready to fuck all night. So I started reading up on natural ways to control ejaculation. Kegeling seemed like the best option, so I started daily kegel excercises whenever I could (a few reps waiting for the train, a few semi hard reps in the shower, etc). After another few months of, for the first time in my life I felt like I could feel every single cell and sensation of my dick - and had complete control over it. It was perfect time, as I was about to have the best night of my life.....