Tantra Massages Experience?

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I would like to know general experience with tantra massages for woman and would you recommend it or it is simply overblown?

I want to give it as a gift to my wife, performed by professional of course. She really likes massages in general, but this time I would like to provide her with something more "sexual".

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If I did not request something on the tantric spectrum, and went in for a relaxation or Therapuetic massage, and got tantric touch, I’d raise hell.

Tantra should be between lovers. Maybe go to a class together.
In the States, a professional massage therapist doesn’t offer tantra work without risking their license.
It is not covered in continuing education credits, and it is not covered by malpractice insurance.
 

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If I did not request something on the tantric spectrum, and went in for a relaxation or Therapuetic massage, and got tantric touch, I’d raise hell.

Tantra should be between lovers. Maybe go to a class together.
In the States, a professional massage therapist doesn’t offer tantra work without risking their license.
It is not covered in continuing education credits, and it is not covered by malpractice insurance.

Thank you for your advice. First of all, it was meant as gift, but she would be aware to what is she going to. No nasty surprises with hell raising risk. :) In general, we are both open to these sorts of fun.

I am completely aware of the intimate aspect of tantra. I wanted to know other women's first-hand experience, because I have read some comments and testimonials online for the massage studios that offer tantra, but you never know are those real/honest or simply an ad to attract new clients.

Tantra massage offered by professionals in Italy is not legal (yes, you can still find it of course), but in the neighboring countries, where prostitution is legal as well, there are many of them which offer services to both - women and men, but also education (this is not an option at this particular moment because of the logistics).
 

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The issues becomes training.
Neotantra, the stuff we know in the west as Tantra is only a slight of it. I happen to live near aTibetan Buddhist university, so Yantra and Tantra are taught in spiritual and physical ways.
And my massage training was the San Francisco Bay Area, which is as hippy dippy as it gets.
The Bay Area had loads of crossover between legitimate, therapeutic massage and Tantra. Tantsu being one.
I took Tantsu training, and I use it only with my partner. It isn’t ..umm....legal touch.

I’ve had two tantric partners before my guy. My exhusband, and a six year off and on boyfriend.
Mr. Off and On was also my massage mentor. I had a proper tantric massage a couple times.
What my exhusband and I did, as well as what my guy and I are doing, feels better overall, likely based on connection.

the idea of a stranger doing it leaves me cold.

look up Margo Anand online. I believe there are video trainings.
 

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I'm glad you're here to offer your insight, SB.

It’s my wheelhouse, balancing research based massage info with what’s best called Social information. That’s the old wives tales, various traditions around the world not yet dancing with modern review, new agey stuff solid and flaky...etc etc.
Because I’m part whitelightgirl myself.