Tantric Sex

[East]

hey guys, I was just wondering if anyone here could give me some advice on Tantra and how it works exactly. i'm very interested in it because it seems blissful to be able to have sex for hours on end in total ecstasy. it does seem like it'd take work but I would definitely like to try it. i've studied the Kama Sutra and I thought it was similar but I now that I start to look into Tantra I don't think it is. any suggestions?

 

[13788]

HEAD: When your taking a pee - Wait till the very last bit is about to come out and hold it in for a few seconds and repeat this for a few months - and this should tighten the muscles in the penis and stop u cuming quick

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Tantric sex is fantastic and a bit too complicated to explain in a message board post. If you're interested, you might want to start with www.tantra.com -- some good information if you skip the dumb marketing of products.

 

[13788]

Misty: Tantra is a wonderful and very liberating discipline. However, just take note that its not all about having sex for hours. Its about worshipping your partner, physically and mentally which in many situations does not involve penetration or involves it in a far different way to the standard understanding of sex.

If you just want to use Tantra to work on your control I think you should start by working on your breathing. Breath in on the in stroke and out on the out stroke. Practise while you masturbate and you'll definately notice a difference.

 

[B_UNKNOWN321]

Originally posted by HEAD@Apr 12 2005, 06:41 PM
When your taking a pee - Wait till the very last bit is about to come out and hold it in for a few seconds and repeat this for a few months - and this should tighten the muscles in the penis and stop u cuming quick

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This is a kegel and the opposite, the reverse kegel which you would engage by trying to pee by tensing the abdominal muscles and unconstricting those that you speak of will also stop the ejaculation, dead in its tracks even if you are within a millisecond of cuming. I didn't know what this was when I discovered it at 14 by accident and have been able to get to brink of spurt and will stop BUT if you mistakenly revert to the kegel, your're done for. If you practice this version (i.e. reverse kegel) you can actually get so close to ejaculation that you can have the spasms of orgasm without the ejaculation, but that does take practice, only did that once and it was just too intense for me ever to repeat it (when you finally do ejaculate the recoil could put you in the next room if you are standing so watch out)

 

[blackwood]

Originally posted by motlissof+Apr 13 2005, 06:21 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(motlissof &#064; Apr 13 2005, 06:21 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-HEAD@Apr 12 2005, 06:41 PM
When your taking a pee - Wait till the very last bit is about to come out and hold it in for a few seconds and repeat this for a few months - and this should tighten the muscles in the penis and stop u cuming quick

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This is a kegel and the opposite, the reverse kegel which you would engage by trying to pee by tensing the abdominal muscles and unconstricting those that you speak of will also stop the ejaculation, dead in its tracks even if you are within a millisecond of cuming. I didn&#39;t know what this was when I discovered it at 14 by accident and have been able to get to brink of spurt and will stop BUT if you mistakenly revert to the kegel, your&#39;re done for. If you practice this version (i.e. reverse kegel) you can actually get so close to ejaculation that you can have the spasms of orgasm without the ejaculation, but that does take practice, only did that once and it was just too intense for me ever to repeat it (when you finally do ejaculate the recoil could put you in the next room if you are standing so watch out)

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motlissof

Very interesting. If I had only known earlier in life. Sure would have added a lot to look forward to.

blackwood

 

[B_UNKNOWN321]

Originally posted by blackwood+Apr 13 2005, 01:37 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(blackwood &#064; Apr 13 2005, 01:37 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by motlissof@Apr 13 2005, 06:21 PM
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@Apr 12 2005, 06:41 PM
When your taking a pee - Wait till the very last bit is about to come out and hold it in for a few seconds and repeat this for a few months - and this should tighten the muscles in the penis and stop u cuming quick

[post=300114]Quoted post[/post]​

This is a kegel and the opposite, the reverse kegel which you would engage by trying to pee by tensing the abdominal muscles and unconstricting those that you speak of will also stop the ejaculation, dead in its tracks even if you are within a millisecond of cuming. I didn&#39;t know what this was when I discovered it at 14 by accident and have been able to get to brink of spurt and will stop BUT if you mistakenly revert to the kegel, your&#39;re done for. If you practice this version (i.e. reverse kegel) you can actually get so close to ejaculation that you can have the spasms of orgasm without the ejaculation, but that does take practice, only did that once and it was just too intense for me ever to repeat it (when you finally do ejaculate the recoil could put you in the next room if you are standing so watch out)

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motlissof

Very interesting. If I had only known earlier in life. Sure would have added a lot to look forward to.

blackwood

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Blackwood let&#39;s have a reality check. I have read of your sexual escapades and they do not have the science fiction flavor of so many on this site, but honest to goodness, frequent, varied, very multi-partnered, standing, sitting, walking, dancing etc. sex in descriptions that make me pant in jealousy. You I think missed nothing.
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[East]

well I tried some breathing exercises while masturbating and it was quite interesting because I had to learn to breath in a completely different manner, but it definitely made me relaxed. the actual intercourse part of Tantra is what i&#39;m interested in because people who have done it claim that it&#39;s better than normal sex, just the feeling of togetherness and love I guess really makes it special. are there any special types of positions in Tantra? I would definitely like to know....

 

[B_RoysToy]

East -- there is a video named "Fire on the Mountain", an intimate guide to Male Genital Masage, A Joseph Kramer Production, that demonstrates tantra sex explicitly. It&#39;s technique is part of Taoist Erotic Massage and has been practiced for eons, unless I&#39;m badly mistaken :grr:

 

[East]

anybody else got any advice?

 

[hawkgirl]

tantra is not just about dck control
It is focusing on the journey the ebbs ad flows, peaks and valleys of lovemaking. If you've never had tantric sex it is like making luv with someone yu are really really sexually compatable with for a really long time with great foreplay. That's the closest thing I can compare it to.

I have had the same tantric partner for 8 years now and I don't want to date him and don't really want sex from anyone else.
You don't have to be in love to do it only inlove with the with your own spirit
Then you can better appreciate the other

It's like a random act of kindness. Helping someone who needs help. I your a nurse who does it for mare than the money. A caregiver looking after a hospice patient.
The love of all man for simply being and realizing this is not the end ther is somewhere else to go and something else undone left to do. THE JOURNEY.
Learning about yourself thru sex with the aid of someone who is doing the same

I learnd thru tantra that I think to much about what I am about to say. I am not as spontanious as I had thought. I should go with my gut feelings more.
I am more aggressive that passive-agressive. I have been more comforatable exercising all of these things in my daiy life and interactions with people in all waslk of life. Work, family, friends, in line at the grocery store.

It sex with the purpose and potential of spiritual growth and unity.
This LOOSE quote is not from a tantra book but it fits.


"Imagine that you that you are a light bulb inside of a baloon. You are seperated from the light oustide of it's rubber SKIN. No light from outside can really get in and no light from you, the light bulb can get out. Imagine that the the lightbule is getting brighter and the air inside of the baloon is heating up. The baloon begins to expand as the molecules inside are vibrating faster and faster. SPIRITUAL GROWTH. The rubber SKIN of the baloon gets thinner. Slowly the light from the uotside of the baloon can come inside and yourlight can shine and be been by all aswell. At what point do the lights meet.
UNION. Who knows?"

But seriously, perhaps you should get into Reiki or Qui Jong and use that in the bedroom

 

[hawkgirl]

This is a description of a tantric dck massage. Handjob whatever

Look into 'edging'. It is when you take your partner to a level JUSSSSSSSSSST about to cum to "NOT gonna cum, Not gonna cum, Not gonna cum."
to OOOOK I'm OOOOK. WHEY! ok

And do it again and again

You have to know your partner pretty well (sexually) to do this cause ya gotta be able to tell that is't building up know at just what moment to back back and how to back back. and when and how to start back. Does there need to be a pause after slowing down or just come to very slow and light movements.

This is a good tenique:
Right when the guy is about to blow stop everything and hold his arms down.
This way he has to struggle with you finish the job homself.
Plus any feeling that he has towards you being the dominant may turn his on.
Then begin stroking again. This time stroke from the head down to the base. Do this slowly and firmly (not too forceful) a min. of 3x.
Then slowly start again to jackoff. But each time that you start over you must use a different touch or jackoff tecnique.

You know first time was 1 handed
Second time slow and methodical
Third deep and forceful
or once with alot of head stim and once with alot of shaft and rim stim
Whatever floats his boat.

But when you finally let him blow and you know when is best
Make sure that it is great. You would have learned what he liked thru the other orgasms w/o ejaculations that he had on the massage table what he liked and kinda and not so much.
Use the 'not so muches' in the process to stop the ejaculation the first couple of times when you start.

Then when it is time use all of the 'liked' and 'really liked'.
Go crazy with if and that one nut will be as good as 7.

I think this is all enough to get ya started EAST lol