hi davidjh7,
thank you for your honest reply.
i have a similar metric.
when walking down the beach, where do my eyes stare more ? who gives me the twitch ? when i JO, who do i think about ??
do a pair of pecs (e.g. Taylor Lautner, since that was the orignal post) raise my temp more than Lady Gaga ? (omg, yuck, how can she POSSIBLY be a sex symbol)
i can totally appreciate a hot chick wiht a great ass , but does an athletic guy with a really tight ass give me a woodie more ?
when i see a hot guy at the beach in a pair of baggy board shorts, or in town in a pair of baggy khakis, do i wonder what he would look like in a speedo, or a snug fitting pair of levis jeans that show off his crotch bulge and ass ?
the answer to the above made it obvious to me a while ago that i was being unfair to my girlfriends. so i experimented with 'the other side"
and the sheer physical trembling at the initial touch and explosive release upon some prolonged intimacy resolved everything i needed to know
i have no idea why God made me this way, but he did. and i appreciate and marvel at both his male and female creation alike, but the males put me in orbit.....
what else can i say ??
Hi, Abu--to answer your question, I guess you could call me "technically" bi--I had some sexual experiences with women when I was younger and can find many women desireable, sexually arousing, and beautful. I find that I connect emotionally with guys best, however, and get the most emotional peace and fullfillment with guys. For me, that is what sets your sexuality more than anything else, the emotional relationship you can have with someone who you also want to have a physical relationship with. It may not be the best answer, but it is the best I can come up with.