I’ve already spoken on this but just to reiterate, I completely agree. There is so much more to a relationship than just the raw physical attraction. That’s just lust and it often fades quickly. Love is something far more complex and built on so much more than just a good sex life.
A lot of people go into a relationship, especially a long term one, seeking companionship and security. Having a supportive and dependable partner that you can always lean on and rely upon is just as important if not more so than someone you may have nothing in common with other than great sex. And I say this as someone who has never been in that kind of long term relationship precisely because I am a shallow hoe who only cares about washboard abs and a tight ass I can bounce quarters off of. But at least I am aware enough to realize that other people have different priorities.
At the end of the day, people go into relationships for all sorts of different reasons and they’re all equally valid. And most importantly no one’s business but their own.