I think my new girlfriends vag tore a little. It looks like right there on the inner lips there is a small tear. What do we do?
Vaginal walls are hard to tear but the sensitive and very thin tissue on the vaginal opening is made out of different cellular fiber that doesnt stretch nearly as much.
I can tear with a vaginal speculum, even with lubricant. It's a good thing i never had a vaginal birth. We have to enter slowly....slowly not to tear.
Unless your husband has razor blades in the tip of his penis, there is no way he should be tearing your vagina when he enters you. I don't know if this is typical of most women. I have never torn during sex, no matter how vigorous a guy has been with me. It sounds as though two things might be going on. Either the skin at the entrance to your vagina is thinner and more delicate than most (and therefore more prone to tearing) or if the tears are occurring in the same area, your husband is tearing and re-tearing old scar tissue. In the case of the latter, it may be that your vagina is not healing correctly each time it tears, in which case you may wish to get professional advice re healing to avoid tearing again in future.
I never said he was tearing my vagina. i was explaining how the vagina is designed to stretch more than the tissues at the openining of the vagina to another person in this thread. I never tore or bled when i lost my virginity and had sex and multiple partners thereafter until i met my husband who is much more girthy. I am built small but a normal sized penis doesnt cause me to tear.
I also explained that its like a papercut that heals quickly and i've got a knot of scar tissue there now from tearing so much.
I don't tear anymore because we have sex so often and i have been on estrogen for almost 10 years to help with this. Sex alone doesnt cause me to tear, but a sudden thrust of anything larger than 2 fingers can cause the vaginal fourchette to split a little and bleed.
My Dr is well aware of it and realizes that i've learned to be delicate and very careful about not tearing. It hurts like hell and i try to avoid it at all costs.