Teasing massage

[MiddleCountryMo]

I started going to this guy to get a massage, he's not licensed yet but has had lots of training and is very professional. I am ridiculously turned on by giving and getting massages, but I in now way want to make him uncomfortable.

I asked him if he did glutes, and he told me he is a glute expert. During the first massage, it was draped and he did an amazing job. I was moaning the whole time, it felt incredible. During the glutes part he was incredibly professional and did a great job. When I turned over, though the sheet was covering me I was hard as a rock. I was throbbing a bit and I'm sure he noticed but I'm also sure he sees it all the time.

A couple of weeks go by and I decide to push my luck a bit, but also be completely upfront with him. I asked him to do a sensual massage, undraped. He agreed without any hesitation or coaxing (by the way he is engaged to marry a woman).

The second massage his touch was lighter, he rans his fingertips all over my body slowly and deliberately. When he massage down from my shoulder to my butt i lifted my hips up and he would spread my cheeks just slightly.

When he asked me to roll over I was again extremely hard, he was running his finger tips all around my legs stomach and chest, but also doing this thing where he would shake out my leg muscles and my cock was bouncing everywhere. He did this for a solid 10 minutes and the hottest thing was the whole time his eyes didnt leave my dick.

I can't wait to go back to him, if only because i love the teasing. Do you guys think I should make further "innocent" requests, or have I pushed far enough? I want to be respectful.

Also does anyone else have any hot "professional" massage stories they would care to share?

 

[Cecil56]

A hard cock should say all that needs said! I do some Asian massages (female) and they say "do you want" as they see the hard cock. I say yes, and I will tip you well.

 

[StaringIsCaring]

Yeah ass play is fun. One who when I asked to do glutes, our next session he nervously put my sheet down showing my butt. He massaged real close to the center and it made me pre-come a lot. Went to him a long time but ended up going backwards and only doing glutes over a sheet. Things sort of got weird between us and I get the impression he doesn't want to see me anymore so I'm not returning. Some guys just experiment until they don't.

Another guy I asked for him to do glute time, like the other guy he did it the following session as if he had thought about it. He put the drape all in the center to make that mountain shape or whatever. He massaged down the back to the glutes and sort of pushed it a little, and did this over and over. The sheet feels nice being moved at the center of my butt. He proceeded to get it totally off my ass and the inside of my ass feels cold but nice. He gives me the best ass massage of my life as if he had been fantasizing about it. I wish all massage therapists worked the ass that well but unfortunately many are too shy. He is far away and went to him much later, unfortunately at that point he charged more and his work is no longer good as if he has lost passion for it. Stopped going to him.

Did a lomi lomi class. For those that don't know that has little draping and done with oil. Long strokes. This guy teaching had escalated things between us for a while and had done some odd things. Well this class he showed how to go under the stomach to go across and he went lower until he found my erection and looked at me in surprise. Then he went all the way across, stroking across the head, a bunch of times, with oil, and it felt incredible. Later that same class I had an erection and he let my draping come undone while he and a woman there stared at my erection in all it's glory. I didn't cover up or anything. That was their job.

I went to him for a private lomi lomi session and I think he got the wrong idea, pushed things a little too far. My dick was soft this time but he still stroked it under the table and just sort of pulled out gently the one time. When I flipped I got an erection again and he let my draping kind of fall off. Massaged up my legs but let his hairy forearm bump my now exposed erection. Finally I started feeling like my relationship wouldn't approve of this and went to fix the draping myself, to find that he had tied it in such a way it basically went around the cock instead of over it. He was uncomfortable and quiet the rest of the session and his behavior around me has since changed. He pushed as far as it could go, but after some pullback has become a professional teacher again.

I wasn't really looking for that stuff, he just sort of did it. And having a full exposed erection for a long long period of time started to get into territory that was too weird for me.

Some men though this is their one way to "experiment" and they are married so they do what they can.

 

[MiddleCountryMo]

Yeah ass play is fun. One who when I asked to do glutes, our next session he nervously put my sheet down showing my butt. He massaged real close to the center and it made me pre-come a lot. Went to him a long time but ended up going backwards and only doing glutes over a sheet. Things sort of got weird between us and I get the impression he doesn't want to see me anymore so I'm not returning. Some guys just experiment until they don't.

Another guy I asked for him to do glute time, like the other guy he did it the following session as if he had thought about it. He put the drape all in the center to make that mountain shape or whatever. He massaged down the back to the glutes and sort of pushed it a little, and did this over and over. The sheet feels nice being moved at the center of my butt. He proceeded to get it totally off my ass and the inside of my ass feels cold but nice. He gives me the best ass massage of my life as if he had been fantasizing about it. I wish all massage therapists worked the ass that well but unfortunately many are too shy. He is far away and went to him much later, unfortunately at that point he charged more and his work is no longer good as if he has lost passion for it. Stopped going to him.

Did a lomi lomi class. For those that don't know that has little draping and done with oil. Long strokes. This guy teaching had escalated things between us for a while and had done some odd things. Well this class he showed how to go under the stomach to go across and he went lower until he found my erection and looked at me in surprise. Then he went all the way across, stroking across the head, a bunch of times, with oil, and it felt incredible. Later that same class I had an erection and he let my draping come undone while he and a woman there stared at my erection in all it's glory. I didn't cover up or anything. That was their job.

I went to him for a private lomi lomi session and I think he got the wrong idea, pushed things a little too far. My dick was soft this time but he still stroked it under the table and just sort of pulled out gently the one time. When I flipped I got an erection again and he let my draping kind of fall off. Massaged up my legs but let his hairy forearm bump my now exposed erection. Finally I started feeling like my relationship wouldn't approve of this and went to fix the draping myself, to find that he had tied it in such a way it basically went around the cock instead of over it. He was uncomfortable and quiet the rest of the session and his behavior around me has since changed. He pushed as far as it could go, but after some pullback has become a professional teacher again.

I wasn't really looking for that stuff, he just sort of did it. And having a full exposed erection for a long long period of time started to get into territory that was too weird for me.

Some men though this is their one way to "experiment" and they are married so they do what they can.

I think I'm kind of like you in the sense that if the massage went to far, if he tried to make a move, I would not want to continue it. It's just this line, between professionalism and desire that i find so enticing, but I still wouldnt want that line crossed, though I do like to push the boundaries a little.

I'm going back to him on Friday for 90 MINUTES! Should I make any special requests that don't take things to far? I thought about asking him to focus more on my front and inner thighs (which is about as subtle as a gun I know)

 

[MiddleCountryMo]

bumpbumpppppppp

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Seems all of this is really pushing the definition of "professional". In my opinion it's disrespectful to put a person in the position of either submitting to sexual play (for lack of better term) or potentially losing your business. A true massage professional knows the line between massage and prostitution, and a good customer respects it.

 

[MiddleCountryMo]

Seems all of this is really pushing the definition of "professional". In my opinion it's disrespectful to put a person in the position of either submitting to sexual play (for lack of better term) or potentially losing your business. A true massage professional knows the line between massage and prostitution, and a good customer respects it.

fair enough

 

[MiddleCountryMo]

So quick update.

Went to him today. The massage was really no different than last week. It was undraped, and I was super hard the whole time. I was almost a little disappointed until....

At the end of the massage, he usually says he'll leave so I can have some privacy to get dressed etc. This time he just awkwardly stayed in the room while I lay on a table with a massive hardon. I didn't think much of it at first, but he was really pleasant and engaging me in some pretty in depth conversations. I pulled at my cock a few times to test the waters and he seemed to relax even more into the room and our conversation. His mouth wasnt watering or anything like that, he just seemed very comfortable. Then he started talking about how massage is great foreplay into sex. Here I started to pull on my cock again, and again he just kept talking. I started stroking more vigorously while we continued our conversation, it was about 30 minutes of me stroking while he showed me how to do certain workouts properly, talked to me about the state of the world and what he thinks needs to be done, and about massage of course. I was so close to cumming but I just edged until I decided i needed to get dressed. I spurt so fucking much I would have made a mess and worried that that might seriously be crossing the line.

 

[vincent2]

So quick update.

Went to him today. The massage was really no different than last week. It was undraped, and I was super hard the whole time. I was almost a little disappointed until....

At the end of the massage, he usually says he'll leave so I can have some privacy to get dressed etc. This time he just awkwardly stayed in the room while I lay on a table with a massive hardon. I didn't think much of it at first, but he was really pleasant and engaging me in some pretty in depth conversations. I pulled at my cock a few times to test the waters and he seemed to relax even more into the room and our conversation. His mouth wasnt watering or anything like that, he just seemed very comfortable. Then he started talking about how massage is great foreplay into sex. Here I started to pull on my cock again, and again he just kept talking. I started stroking more vigorously while we continued our conversation, it was about 30 minutes of me stroking while he showed me how to do certain workouts properly, talked to me about the state of the world and what he thinks needs to be done, and about massage of course. I was so close to cumming but I just edged until I decided i needed to get dressed. I spurt so fucking much I would have made a mess and worried that that might seriously be crossing the line.

Seems like he didn't care you were jacking off. Maybe next time you should cum...

 

[Dave NoCal]

He seems like a very cool guy. How about just talking it over and coming to some kind of agreement. I have had clear conversations, with massage therapists, in which the parameters were roughly agreed upon. As far as massage goes, I find it more relaxing to not have to be guessing.

 

[hairynycstud]

So quick update.

Went to him today. The massage was really no different than last week. It was undraped, and I was super hard the whole time. I was almost a little disappointed until....

At the end of the massage, he usually says he'll leave so I can have some privacy to get dressed etc. This time he just awkwardly stayed in the room while I lay on a table with a massive hardon. I didn't think much of it at first, but he was really pleasant and engaging me in some pretty in depth conversations. I pulled at my cock a few times to test the waters and he seemed to relax even more into the room and our conversation. His mouth wasnt watering or anything like that, he just seemed very comfortable. Then he started talking about how massage is great foreplay into sex. Here I started to pull on my cock again, and again he just kept talking. I started stroking more vigorously while we continued our conversation, it was about 30 minutes of me stroking while he showed me how to do certain workouts properly, talked to me about the state of the world and what he thinks needs to be done, and about massage of course. I was so close to cumming but I just edged until I decided i needed to get dressed. I spurt so fucking much I would have made a mess and worried that that might seriously be crossing the line.

Bro the line was crossed when you started strokin in front of him...obviouslybhe doesnt mind...maybe likes watching..should ask him if he can give youba happy ending

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

He seems like a very cool guy. How about just talking it over and coming to some kind of agreement. I have had clear conversations, with massage therapists, in which the parameters were roughly agreed upon. As far as massage goes, I find it more relaxing to not have to be guessing.

This x 1000. He's clearly into you on some level beyond it being strictly a massage. Where should be discussed.

 

[Jake1973]

Yea but you can only do something the first time once. I dig a really slow progression with stuff like this, keeps it exciting.

Bro the line was crossed when you started strokin in front of him...obviouslybhe doesnt mind...maybe likes watching..should ask him if he can give youba happy ending

 

[MiddleCountryMo]

Yea but you can only do something the first time once. I dig a really slow progression with stuff like this, keeps it exciting.

yessss. thank you jake. you get me

 

[hvdude]

His comments that massage is a great foreplay for sex would be my cue to respond, "Well, I think I'm going to go home and masturbate" or something to that affect. If you are "pulling on yourself" (i.e. masturbating) in front of him you might simply ask, "Is it ok if I masturbate here? I'll clean up after myself." He may say yes and stay and watch. He may say no and be really embarrassed.

I had just the opposite experience: I had a massage guy I went to. He was very nice, had a decent body, but he had a rather unattractive face (bad skin from acne when he was younger). His massages were excellent and his clientele was 99% male. As our sessions progressed he started introducing sex into the conversation, including telling me that one of his clients asked him for a happy ending. I felt weird, but chalked it up to the fact that he was being friendly, was comfortable with me and making conversation. The next massage as he was working on my hamstrings, his hands brushed my balls. It could have been totally innocent. Then the conversation related to sex came up again. I didn't respond (nor did I get hard, since I wasn't attracted to him). The next massage I started off saying, "I'd really prefer to allow you to focus on the massage, so maybe we can cut out a lot of our talking during the session." He seemed a little put off and after asked if he had done something wrong. He seemed actually hurt. I told him that I just wanted to let him do his thing and not get too bogged down in conversation. As he always did he hugged me goodbye and that was the last time I went. He has since moved his practice elsewhere.

My point is that it can go both ways: you can be offended by his actions or he can by offended by yours and what you risk is having to find a new therapist.

 

[SillyGayBoy]

His comments that massage is a great foreplay for sex would be my cue to respond, "Well, I think I'm going to go home and masturbate" or something to that affect. If you are "pulling on yourself" (i.e. masturbating) in front of him you might simply ask, "Is it ok if I masturbate here? I'll clean up after myself." He may say yes and stay and watch. He may say no and be really embarrassed.

I had just the opposite experience: I had a massage guy I went to. He was very nice, had a decent body, but he had a rather unattractive face (bad skin from acne when he was younger). His massages were excellent and his clientele was 99% male. As our sessions progressed he started introducing sex into the conversation, including telling me that one of his clients asked him for a happy ending. I felt weird, but chalked it up to the fact that he was being friendly, was comfortable with me and making conversation. The next massage as he was working on my hamstrings, his hands brushed my balls. It could have been totally innocent. Then the conversation related to sex came up again. I didn't respond (nor did I get hard, since I wasn't attracted to him). The next massage I started off saying, "I'd really prefer to allow you to focus on the massage, so maybe we can cut out a lot of our talking during the session." He seemed a little put off and after asked if he had done something wrong. He seemed actually hurt. I told him that I just wanted to let him do his thing and not get too bogged down in conversation. As he always did he hugged me goodbye and that was the last time I went. He has since moved his practice elsewhere.

My point is that it can go both ways: you can be offended by his actions or he can by offended by yours and what you risk is having to find a new therapist.

Massage therapists are not supposed to speak unless spoken to. He was being unprofessional. In fact this is why a lot of people stop seeing a therapist. They are not there to talk. I actually do talk to mine a lot but that is because we are friendly and have common interests.