Teens that still aren't active

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  1. fak_et

    fak_et New Member

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    Just wondering how many other teens on here still aren't active.

    I don't know why but I guess I just wasn't feelin it due to the risks. At HS, we had a pretty big std scare, basically one dude infected a lot of girls and it wasn't just rumors (a bacterial one). So, after that Im sure I wasn't the only one that was a bit held back in my hs due to the risks. Another factor was that ive always been extremely picky with girls, etc. Ill say the way i was brought up has some part as well, parents were very anti-relationship for some reason and it just felt not worth the effort to go against them. I usually just took care of the urges myself with the help of some porn.

    At this point im 19, had some play before but nothing too serious. In college now and thought i was gonna turn that around, however i've been somewhat disappointed with the female selection around here and been busy as hell.

    That goes without saying, i am still horny as hell and even more so lately. Soon....

    Just curious how many of you aren't active and maybe give some reasons or whatever.
     
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    i'm a freshman in college and i've still got my v-card to the max. of course, like any man, i've always wanted to have sex, however i'm saving myself for marriage. i view sex as a bond that you share with someone and i would like that first time to be with my wife... lame you may say, but honestly, i wouldn't change for anyone.

    and besides... any time i felt the need, well, God gave us hands for a reason...


    i say, it's a personal choice. alot of my friends are also virgins. and most ppl i know don't really care whether you are or you aren't.
     
  3. Joseph

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    Im in the college, turning 20 in November, never had anything with anyone. A complete virgin, all I can do is jerk off in the lonelyness
     
  4. VanillaTwist

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    I'm a Junior in college and still a virgin. It's mostly because I haven't found a partner yet and a one night stand just doesn't feel like the right way to lose it.

    What I don't understand however is how people push others to lose it or label them as whackjobs. Yeah, there might be something wrong with some virgins, but not all virgins are creepy. They're just not getting any loving.
     
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    freshman in college
    have done some stuff with guys but not tossing the v card out the door.
    i kind of want to,
    but i also know i don't want to waste it on just anyone.
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    a) am busy
    b) don't have much self confidence
    and c) um...i make myself busy if i'm not...
    so yeah.
    i'm in a predicament.
     
  6. Good|Bad

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    I'm still a virgin at 18, but not because I don't want to lose it. Most likely from my poor social life.
     
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    I'm 20 in college and still a virgin.

    I feel sad.
     
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    vouch
     
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    rejected 3 advances to remain v - why ? They did not deserve me :p
     
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    with you on that one, saving myself for marriage!
     
  11. agnslz

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    I'm approaching my late 20s and I still haven't had sex yet.:redface: I plan to kill myself on the eve of my 30th birthday if I still haven't had sex by then.:biggrin::tongue:
     
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    Haha, Ditto, glad i'm not alone
     
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    My girlfriend's the only gf I've ever had. She's a pastor's daughter so she won't go all the way. She does everything else though. 'Cept anal, but I'm not complaining. So yeah, I still have my v-card.
     
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    OMG LOL Sounds like you "V-Card" is torn to shreds.
     
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    What is virginity for guys?
     
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    for me...really, idk. just for me, I feel that the 1st time should be wit someone "Special"
     
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    im 27 and am still a virgin, mostly due tomy small penis size (2 1/2 hard, and retractable when soft) im bi but now stick to guys. mostly because women laugh at me. the first time i had the cance to have sex with a girl i was 17. i was feeling her boobs when she slipped her hand down my pants and tried to feel around but there was nothing to feel, so she pulled my pants down and started laughing so hard . this was10 years ago back then i was about a inch hard and my balls were also inside. so we pretty much looked the same naked. she thought i was going to be huge cause im very tall and i wear size 14 shoes. her last boy friend was8 inches she told me. even though she couldnt stop laughing she still wanted to fuck so she could tell everyone the story and she said it would be funny to try and put a condom on me which was very generous of her. so she got naked and took the rest ofmy clothes off and then as per usual i couldnt get it hard. so the one time it could have happend it didn't.
     
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    I used to feel this way too but then I decided it was morally wrong to sexually exploit the mentally handicapped.
     
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    Baby,if you were gay, you wouldn't still be a virgin!
     
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    20 and in college still a holder of the virgin title because I'm way to shy.
     
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