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My boyfriend just booked us a week at New Orleans House in Key West. I've never stayed at a clothing-optional gay resort before so I'm unsure of what to expect. Has anyone stayed here before? What's the vibe? I know some can be very relaxed and tame while other's can get pretty down and dirty at night. :imp: I've heard stories about Island House and how public sex is very common at that resort. Is New Orleans House like this too? I love the nude beach so I'm excited for whatever it turns out to be like but google is not giving me the answers I'm looking for and I'd like to know what kind of situations we may potentially be going into beforehand because i like to be prepared. Would love to hear some of your experiences at this place or other places like it too...
 

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Wasn't sure what forum to post this under...

My boyfriend just booked us a week at New Orleans House in Key West. I've never stayed at a clothing-optional gay resort before so I'm unsure of what to expect. Has anyone stayed here before? What's the vibe? I know some can be very relaxed and tame while other's can get pretty down and dirty at night. :imp: I've heard stories about Island House and how public sex is very common at that resort. Is New Orleans House like this too? I love the nude beach so I'm excited for whatever it turns out to be like but google is not giving me the answers I'm looking for and I'd like to know what kind of situations we may potentially be going into beforehand because i like to be prepared. Would love to hear some of your experiences at this place or other places like it too...
At least you don't have to worry about what to wear.
 

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I’ve stayed at Island house and New Orleans House— and a few other gay resorts in other parts of the world. My bottom line is this: your experience will be what you make of it and I was 100% too anxious about going to these places before I first went. I have found that these types of places attract friendly, outgoing and eager to mingle people of all body types, sexual interests, etx. And people go for lots of reasons—If you want to keep to yourself and just enjoy the pool, it will be great scenery. But if you’re looking to mingle— you’ll find lots of people interested too. Bottom line—they are lots of fun and you have nothing to fear. Enjoy!!
 

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I stayed at a clothing optional place in Palm Springs, and it was a little intimidating, but I got into it. There were many guys with better bodies than mine, but I did get into it.

There was some hot tub fun to be had.
 

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I went to a now defunct one in Phoenix. It was a really slow time of the year, a random weekday in late January. There were only three other people there. They were all distinctive different body types, and two of the three were a couple. The other guy alone was very wiry and tall, with lots of body hair. One of the men in the couple was very obese, and his partner was extremely muscular. I am simply average build, but unattractive in the face, and short in height. What all three men had in common was very large penises on them all. I'd guess around six inches flaccid on the smallest of the three. I would have welcomed conversation (or more) from any of the other guys, but they all chose to keep to their quiet areas of the pool.

I think COVID did the Arizona place in, unfortunately. They had one competing gay hotel in town, which might still be around, but that other place doesn't allow day visitors like this one I went to did.
 

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I’ve stayed at equator in key west a couple times. It’s a nice place. My experience was it is not as cruisy as island house. I did get day passes at island house before though and it’s fun. I was not staying at a gay resort at that time. I’ve never stayed at island house though. I’ve been to the pool area at New Orleans. Like the back bar at bourbon street. Didn’t see a lot of activity though- just nude swimming. Did sneak off to get blown in a more private area there though. Love key west! So jealous!
 

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Island House has a small play room with a fuck bench, glory holes, etc. People definitely use it, but, at least the few times that I’ve been, most of the sex was in private guest rooms. People sneak off to fool around, and in my experience, it’s discreet but not covert. Frankly I went there hoping it would be an extremely high end bathhouse. I definitely had sex, but it was not the perpetual orgy I was hoping for. By 1:00 am the play room is pretty much deserted, even when the hotel is sold out.
 
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I have been to several clothing optional gay resorts. Some have merited repeat visits while other locations I couldn't get away from fast enough! Not one experience has been like another and that's due to the many different bodies and personalities present in each visit. The truly great experiences were not necessarily at high-end locations, but coincidentally at facilities that were at least well maintained and CLEAN!!!! (I've had rooms with old moldy pizza in the fridge & floors so filthy your feet turned black walking from the shower to the bed to name a few examples!)

People will react to the signals you put out such as isolating yourself to just chill out, engaging in conversations/activities or being actually nude versus wearing speedos or shorts. It never hurts to just say "Hi" or give an acknowledging nod to "get things going"!!
 
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I went to SIRenity Farms in the summer of 2021.
Plusses, clothing optional around pool. Friendly camp cookouts at almost every meal I was there.
Negatives, unless you have your own camper, your home is going to be an unairconditioned, rental RV with a FULL toilet tank in 100 degree heat, and not much to do but lay around pool. The ground was paved with large gravel chunks everywhere except the pool area, so you will have to wear shoes a lot. Their "hook-up" area is a rusty, rickety little camper, probably from a horror porno set, that smells as bad as their toilets and is found in the dark part of the rough, fist-sized-gravel-strewn walking trail, nestled amongst some dead trees.
Would not attend again.
 
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I once went to a clothing optional gay resort in Palm Springs, which, unfortunately, is no longer. As with most of them, it was one floor, all facing the pool/hot tub area. I had been to Desert Paradise several times, which was very nice, but geared to couples, but had never been to this place ( If forgot the name). Anyway, I got there and was greeted at my door by one of the naked patrons who wanted to tell me the unofficial " rules" of the place. I had my suitcase and everything, so I invited him in so he could tell me what I needed to know. He was an older guy with a rather elegant demeanor. He told me that he had been there countless times and he felt like the empresario, making sure that everyone had a good time. He sat down on the chair as I was unpacking and told me the first rule was that there were to be no inhibitions; that the place was to be free for all, so do what you want, just as long as it isn't harming anyone. The second rule was that nobody was to wear clothes inside the confines of the grounds. You can't be free if you have the human barrier of clothes. The third " rule" was that no one closes the curtains if he is jacking off or having sex. We should be free to share our activities with anyone who wants to watch. I looked over at the window, which was pretty much a full picture window, going from the ceiling almost to the floor, except for the air conditioning unit. Then he asked me questions which I could answer or not. He wanted to know why I had come to this place, what I liked to do in bed, if I had a boyfriend, and if I was inhibited. I told him that I came for relaxation and to be in a place where I could be naked outside. I said that was a bottom who liked to service men, that I was single and totally uninhibited. He smiled and told me to take off my clothes so he could " inspect" me. I found this whole thing both strange and exciting. So, I stripped slowly, letting him see every part of my body in an unrushed manner. When I finally pulled off my briefs, he told me to come over to him so he could inspect me. He ran his hands over my body, fondling my genitals and ass. I was told to bend over and spread my cheeks so he could see my hole. After that, he told me to enjoy myself and left. I went to the pool and enjoyed my afternoon with a group of naked men. That night I went to the hot tub and sat, just enjoying the stars in the Palm Springs sky, I got out and started walking to my room when I saw a small group of men staring into one of the room's windows. Well, the curiosity got to me and I went over. Inside the room, a naked couple was engaged in a session of 69 ing. Most of the spectators were playing with themselves and each other while they were watching. It was almost like seeing a porn movie, but with real people. I thought that this was a great place and that my greeter was right about not pulling the drapes. After they had orgasmed, the crowd dissipated, which gave me the opportunity to walk around the complex, hard as a rock. Indeed, no drapes were pulled, which added to the eye candy. On my last night there, the empresario, with whom I had shared several nights together in the hot tub, just talking, came to my door with two other men. He told me that they were a couple, but he had brought them as my going away present, and that they were both going to fuck me while he watched. They were both in their early 40's with nice bodies and excited cocks. One of the them had brought a big ass joint which we smoked before getting into the action. I turned on the lights on both sides of the bed, my friend sat in the same chair that he had upon my arrival, and both of them fucked me. I was spitroasted as they took turns on my ass; both pistoned me hard and seemed to have an erotic choreography executed. My friend kept being very vocal, urging them on to fuck me harder, slap my ass, and fuck my throat. He kept asking me if I loved it. I did. They both ended up cumming on my face ( which I love). We sat and they told me that they were both tops and often sought out a bottom to fuck. It was their thing. After a few minutes, they left. My friend told me that I looked like I needed some time in the hot tub, which I did. We left and discovered that I had drawn quite the crowd to watch me getting royally fucked. We went into the hot tub and, for the first time, he sat right next to me. He reached down and started rubbing my dick, which had been edged,but was still unsatisfied. Eventually he told me to sit on the edge of the tub and he jacked me off. It felt amazing. Because I had been fucked and my ass was still feeling the dicks in me, it took a while for me to cum, even though
I really wanted to and my dick was as hard as it had ever been. A few men got into the tub and watched us, some of them encouraging him. Finally, after what seemed like an eternity, the feeling came over me and I let out a huge cry and shot a geyser into the air. That met with the approval of the guys in the tub. I was totally spent, so I washed up and went to bed, after giving my friend a big tongue kiss to express my thanks. I slept naked on top of the covers. It was the best vacation I had ever had. I hated leaving for home.
 

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I went to a now defunct one in Phoenix. It was a really slow time of the year, a random weekday in late January. There were only three other people there. They were all distinctive different body types, and two of the three were a couple. The other guy alone was very wiry and tall, with lots of body hair. One of the men in the couple was very obese, and his partner was extremely muscular. I am simply average build, but unattractive in the face, and short in height. What all three men had in common was very large penises on them all. I'd guess around six inches flaccid on the smallest of the three. I would have welcomed conversation (or more) from any of the other guys, but they all chose to keep to their quiet areas of the pool.

I think COVID did the Arizona place in, unfortunately. They had one competing gay hotel in town, which might still be around, but that other place doesn't allow day visitors like this one I went to did.
I have not been to any since Covid. I have been to a couple in Palm Springs, and a few in Ft Lauderdale. All were different.

Specifically the large penises comment - that is quite the opposite of what I found. Yes you will some big hangers there. But you also see a lot of every day cock, and even quite a few on the small side. each resort attracts a different group - some are unfortunately geared towards the very attractive, others towards the twinks. CCBC in Palm Springs had a very diverse group.

What suprised me was how low key they were. For instance CCBC has a very active play area. But outside of that it is very social. The hot tubs arfe places to meet people and talk. most highly discourage play in the wet areas, and while many guys eventually find themselves showing off, it's really very social. I've met some great guys there. The funny thing is that once youve been there for a little while, you suddenly ind yourself forgetting you or anyone else happens to be naked.
 

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I've been to Cabanas and Ed Lugo in Fort Lauderdale. Both good for different reasons. I also spent a week about a dozen years ago at Windemar, one of the beach adjacent sluttier guest houses that's now been turned into a straight place. Three very different but good experiences.
 

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I've been to Cabanas and Ed Lugo in Fort Lauderdale. Both good for different reasons. I also spent a week about a dozen years ago at Windemar, one of the beach adjacent sluttier guest houses that's now been turned into a straight place. Three very different but good experiences.
I'd be interested in more detail on those places. We've been to Fort Lauderdale/Wilton Manors more than once but have only stayed at the Calypso where, because it's small, not much was happening by the pool. Are Cabanas and Ed Lugo (which I think is much pricier) lively?