Telling your ex off...

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I'm friends with my first ex (yes, it can happen if enough time passes. Old wounds can heal), so no need to tell him off. My second ex is a different story but I have much better things to do than create elaborate scenarios for vengeful purposes. That's how bitter people are formed.
 

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Lately...I've wanted to find my ex on myspace becuase I have been thinking about him...but what would we talk about...its been 2 years.... I, in a sense, don't have closure..I guess...
 
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I had an interesting experience the other day.

My ex is actually crazy, like diagnosed borderline and genuinely afraid of crowds and the public, absolutely no personal boundaries (if you she could see you, you were in her face) and she smoked pot every day, wouldn't eat for days at a time, and sometimes cut herself, and had had many abusive boyfriends (whom she would still talk to on the phone, god knows why), and tried to get herself raped (methodically seducing her married teacher [telling me the details along the way, I thought it was a strange thing to do] and then he fucked her on his classroom desk until she freaked out and stopped him in the middle of it and went to a fucking police station) and I turned into a real downer myself around her.

She IM'd me the other day when I got a new AIM client and forgot to use a block list... she still has my username in her freakin' buddylist (don't forget, she still talks to even some of her abusive exes) and would try to talk to me. I guess she still smokes pot every day because her message popped up on my computer screen:

"Who is this?"

So beautiful, she has forgotten about me a little more.
 

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I feel all in the replies in here, i've been going through some real shit with my ex. She broke it off and left me feeling quite lost, but the problem i have is that she keeps phoning me on random days saying she misses me but doesn't give me any indication that she wants me back. I have to say that i'm getting stonger each day and i keep waying up the benefits of being away from such a freaky girl. Moving on is reallly hard but if you don't do it the heartache carries on. I do still love her but as they say there is a very thin line between love and hate. Time is a great healer and i believe if your strong enough to move on, you give yourself a much better opportunity to love others and maybe the day will come when you are truely happy:smile:
 

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I never have had any problem with an ex. A few are close friend years later and that other time seems to have not existed. I know not everyone is there, but I feel that if I couldn't get along with them I could be civil if I saw them. I just don't want to be the source of pain for someone else and I think why would I want to hold anyone back. No one is keeping track of putdowns....I think I will only be measured by what I put out there. So good luck to them. Say hello...whatever...and keep walking if you must.
 

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I had fun doing it to mine last night... had no freaking idea she was back from Florida. Went something like...

walks over to me sitting at the bar...

"something cute" she said.

"Yeah we haven't talked in ten months lets not break that trend."

"Things don't have to be this way." she replied.

"Yeah, yeah they do. I took an inventory of things, and I really don't need your flighty crap in my life anymore."

"Well..." gets cut off.

"And there's no way in hell I'm fucking you tonight."

At that point her's, my 2 friends and the bartenders mouths all drop open. And she walked away.

Part of the new philosophy, ex's are ex's for a reason.

Soooo I'm up for story time, anyone else for a good telling off the ex?


I will say that whupping my ex's ass in front of the guy he cheated on me with was the best revenge a man could have. (IT was long overdue.)
 

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I will say that whupping my ex's ass in front of the guy he cheated on me with was the best revenge a man could have. (IT was long overdue.)

I vote for that, although I kinda like making out with someone that my ex hates right when she came out of the bathroom alittle more. Batting 2 for 2 with 4 plate appearances left to go. Been a wild couple of days.

PS check out the next thread.