Telling Your Gf That Big Cocks Arouse You?

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Yep. Bi guy here but only ever dated women. Told both my long term partners. One was disappointed and became distant and somewhat homophobic. The other didnt care
Yeah, I think it can be quite mixed reactions. Rare for them to get excited by it, possibly more common for them to find it a bit of a turn off?
 

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My current girlfriend knows it. I told her of my envy and arrousal by big cocks, and also that I had bi experience driven by it.

She sometimes teases me with it. We usually have coffee in bed in the morning. I make and bring the coffee to her, and ad we sip it under the covers, I'll ask her how it is. She will lustffully say, "Hot... strong... and black!'

Sometimes makes me hard thinking about her enjoying a big one.

She satisfies my need for big by ravaging my ass with big toys or her fist. She loves to see how crazy size makes me!

She once blinfolded me and worked me over with produce she bought at the grocery. I never knew what was coming! And she had big, bigget and biggest lined up for me. I never saw what she had until afterwards... and she took my breath away and had me crying out with pleasre!
 

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My current girlfriend knows it. I told her of my envy and arrousal by big cocks, and also that I had bi experience driven by it.

She sometimes teases me with it. We usually have coffee in bed in the morning. I make and bring the coffee to her, and ad we sip it under the covers, I'll ask her how it is. She will lustffully say, "Hot... strong... and black!'

Sometimes makes me hard thinking about her enjoying a big one.

She satisfies my need for big by ravaging my ass with big toys or her fist. She loves to see how crazy size makes me!

She once blinfolded me and worked me over with produce she bought at the grocery. I never knew what was coming! And she had big, bigget and biggest lined up for me. I never saw what she had until afterwards... and she took my breath away and had me crying out with pleasre!
Wow, she sounds very open minded!

I get aroused by big cocks, but have no desire for anal. I'd suck one though ;-)
 

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I've made it a policy to tell any woman I'm dating, and try to do so at the beginning.

The most common response is a series of questions about what happens if I desire cock more than them, will it lead to me cheating.....and eventually "how do you know you're not actually gay".

I've had one gf open to playing with another guy (never happened), and a few accepted me for who I am, and could easily joke about it later. But about 60% just say thanks for being honest, and move on....
 

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I've made it a policy to tell any woman I'm dating, and try to do so at the beginning.

The most common response is a series of questions about what happens if I desire cock more than them, will it lead to me cheating.....and eventually "how do you know you're not actually gay".

I've had one gf open to playing with another guy (never happened), and a few accepted me for who I am, and could easily joke about it later. But about 60% just say thanks for being honest, and move on....
Move on...?

As in move on with you, or from you?
 

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Never discussed it but I'm sure she's aware. Been together twenty plus years and we swing. She's bi but not a fan of guy on guy contact. She has said multiple times over the past several years about what is acceptable for me to do and what isn't.
 

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I see this question here and other forums over the years. As a bi curious guy myself I would love to. I know it's an issue in many couples. And if you think it's just guys? Think again. Google: married bi discreet. I thought there would be an overwhelming about of articles and discussion forums for the guys... But wait. Lots of women dealing with the same feelings.

The problem really seems to come when we start off life as the clear heterosexual person going thru the motions of life. But as we mature or change views... Now we have an issue. Being together for a long time it would be a shocker. I think most either force themselves to be straight with her. Or cheat. Tough call.
 

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IMO, it's a subject to really not throw out there for discussion. Women do not generally want to hear about their guy's attraction to large dicks. On the other hand, your guy is not really wanting to hear about how you love sliding inside a nice warm 'pussy'. Just my thoughs on it.

I know in a perfect world full disclosure is great, but the realitiy of it is: sometimes the information is not well received. Once you have made that desire known verbally, there is no going back.
 
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After being with my "girlfriend" at the time, I came out as being bisexual. She then went and asked me "you have sex with other guys?" The relationship went downhill after that. If you tell a straight girl that you like cock I would say the odds are that they will NOT accept it. Because they think you are going to cheat on them or whatever other reason.
 

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After being with my "girlfriend" at the time, I came out as being bisexual. She then went and asked me "you have sex with other guys?" The relationship went downhill after that. If you tell a straight girl that you like cock I would say the odds are that they will NOT accept it. Because they think you are going to cheat on them or whatever other reason.

You're right. Like I wrote earlier in the thread it may be a discussion to stay away from. They will not usually react very well when this information is given to them. The entire security of the relationship is gone; and, a woman can compete with another woman. Generally, straight women are not wired to be ok with their bf having sex with other dudes.
 

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I am married bi but told my wife i was bi before I was married. She also knows I'm a bottom and that I enjoy big cocks. We've had the who's had a bigger one discussion but she may have won it. The more I play with big cocks the more I want them. Usually it seems that I run into issues keeping them hard, I usually play with older guys, less hassles other than a hard dick.
 

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After being with my "girlfriend" at the time, I came out as being bisexual. She then went and asked me "you have sex with other guys?" The relationship went downhill after that. If you tell a straight girl that you like cock I would say the odds are that they will NOT accept it. Because they think you are going to cheat on them or whatever other reason.

Kudos to you for being honest. As for her, be happy that you did not end up marrying her, before the relationship went downhill.
 
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I've made it a policy to tell any woman I'm dating, and try to do so at the beginning.

The most common response is a series of questions about what happens if I desire cock more than them, will it lead to me cheating.....and eventually "how do you know you're not actually gay".

I've had one gf open to playing with another guy (never happened), and a few accepted me for who I am, and could easily joke about it later. But about 60% just say thanks for being honest, and move on....

Kudos for being honest! Their loss, not yours!
 
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