Testing the waters?

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I've got head from a guy before, I actually frequent a guy's gloryhole but I KNOW I'll never be with a guy romantically or from besides the GH head but the other day I happened to see my best friend's dick in his phone by mistake (he swiped in the wrong direction) and to be honest it was kinda big. He recently lost a lot of weight and said it got bigger, blah, blah. The point is I kinda got an instant urge to know what it would be like to suck a guy's dick. I've been thinking about it ever since, not my friend or even the action of giving head to a guy but just that first initial urge. Should I just test the waters? And if so how? I DO NOT want a disease. I want this to be safe but I don't know anyone who I would trust enough to just do it because of the whole disease thing. How should I approach this?
 

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I don't thinki its out of line to know how recently any adult who has had numerous sexual partners has been tested for STD's etc before you have sex. The only real way to control that one hundred percent is to have sex with people you know /trust and generally know the histories of.

The rest is sort of weird. I don't think many people want diseases.
 

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As weird as it may sound, you probably do want to do this with a friend. Maybe you don't target your best friend, but it should be someone you know and are comfortable with. I would think you would want the conversation to be about a lot of things, including sex, before you actually tried something like this.

My first oral was with my roommate in college, and by the time we did that, I knew all about his sexual history (what little there was) and he knew about mine (which was even less than his). We knew we were experimenting, and that's how we went about it. Outside of college and intimate living conditions, I'd think this would be more difficult to pull off, but clearly people do it all the time.
 

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I've got head from a guy before, I actually frequent a guy's gloryhole but I KNOW I'll never be with a guy romantically or from besides the GH head but the other day I happened to see my best friend's dick in his phone by mistake (he swiped in the wrong direction) and to be honest it was kinda big. He recently lost a lot of weight and said it got bigger, blah, blah. The point is I kinda got an instant urge to know what it would be like to suck a guy's dick. I've been thinking about it ever since, not my friend or even the action of giving head to a guy but just that first initial urge. Should I just test the waters? And if so how? I DO NOT want a disease. I want this to be safe but I don't know anyone who I would trust enough to just do it because of the whole disease thing. How should I approach this?

Shaq: You said exactly what there should be: Trust. (disease/wanna try/etc.) Trust yourself, be Safe, watch some porn, and TRUST YOURSELF, Listen to yourself....and then: Journey-Onward

Blessings :redface: (keep me posted, will you?)